Holding pattern?? Cherry: When can you tell when a relationship is not moving forward like it should?? I need a freakin manual for a man's mind. I feel like at the end of 8 months I am still not sure if he is into this or not.
He is a wonderful guy!! A great dad!! He is good in bed, a careful considerate lover. We differ on our opinions about sex in some ways but I really dont have any complaints.
I just feel unsure. It isn't anything he has said or done or even my other post about not wanting to spend the holidays with us. It just seems that he is still back behind his walls. I worry. I always worry and over analyze things.
Any advice?? I know some of this is from my past and how my personal insecurities affect me. However I do have a friend or two who are of the opinion that I am wasting my time. :-\
Re: Holding pattern?? Spike: Life, and living it, is never a waste of time. You know the red flags, if you see them, you know what to do next.
Re: Holding pattern?? Cherry: But how do you seperate red flags from past insecurities??
Re: Holding pattern?? Spike: You don't!!! Your insecurities came from not seeing those red flags before. Sorry, Hun, but if you see them, run.
Re: Holding pattern?? Cherry: .........
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