bad day today (its really over) could use any words of support right now lumbeeman: we had a counseling appointment yesterday,and we got into an argument afterwards because she was comparing me to a guy she had a relationship with months ago,she says she loves me,b ut doesnt have the feelings of passion for me,part of wants to say screw it and give up, but its not the righ thting to do togive up, but i have to ask myself what am i fighting against, i have no control over it.shit i dont even know what im thinking this morning,just falling back into that depression i was in with this all happend over a yr ago, anyone tell me anything, just have no one to talk to about this right now, at least anyone that can remotely unsderstand
Re: bad day today frustrated: Without knowing the whole story...all I can say is that while you may feel alone you aren't. You have the support of everyone here who has gone through some type of pain from their breakup. I think we all know that you have good days and bad days...so this feel will too pass. It may seem stupid or impossible but think of something that makes you really happy outside of your past relationship with her. Maybe a pet...a friend...a vacation you are going to take. And everytime you start to feel down...push it out and think about your happy thing instead. It isn't easy, but over time it helps.
Re: bad day today l0progression: I am going through the exact same thing you are at this moment. I thought I was doing very well, but now after counseling I am getting false hopes again. I doubt I'll fall into another depression, at least I hope not, but its not as smooth sailing as it used to be!
Anyway, my ex is saying the same sorts of things and I am pretty close to just giving up. I have a life to live and by pissing around and waiting for someone who may or may not come back I could be missing golden opportunities.
Life is too short to wait around for the indecisive.
Re: bad day today lumbeeman: thanks for your words frustrated and l0progression im glad you chimed in my friend it really does mean alot to know im not the only one going through this type of situation, it really is a terrible feeling knowing that the woman you love isnt really sexually attracted to you, and in my case ive turned down many women , i get more than my fair share of attention form women, i just dont get it sometimes
Re: bad day today daneo: To use an old cliche "there are plenty of fish in the sea" just about sums it up. Its still taking me time to realize that she wasnt and isnt the only woman who will come into my life and love me for me.....but if I sit and dwell on it, I will be blind to any opportunity that may arise after.
One day at a time - try to think for the NOW rather than what will happen later or what has happend in the past. Something will suprise you when you arent expecting it.
thats my 2 cents
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