Re: bad day today idocsteve: [quote author=lumbeeman link=topic=37520.msg403738#msg403738 date=1163770012"> she was comparing me to a guy she had a relationship with months ago,she says he loves me,b ut doesnt have the feelings of passion for me..[/quote">
Lumbee, I'm confused.
If he loves you, then what is he doing with her?
;) Just trying to cheer you up buddy.
And stay away from CM, he will tell you to stay with her no matter what...
Re: bad day today crushedman: Lumbee-
You can only control what you can control. Sexual attraction is a very fickle thing... it comes and it goes. Shame on your wife for not realizing that. Infatuation and sexual chemistry fade with time, and no matter who your wife ends up this will be the case. Keep bangin.
cm
Re: bad day today lumbeeman: she even told the counseler that she thought she might confusing love with lust, i took that a few different ways, i was her first and only for 13 years,we got married young i 20 her 21,we have 2 children also, i am starting to wonder when enoughs enough, ive ran back to her everytime shes asked me over the alst yr about 10 times, only for her to change her mind, she left me i didnt leave her
Re: bad day today crushedman: Here is the thing, man...
Do what is best for YOU. The trick is to not take this stuff personally. Because I guarantee that no matter who your wife is/was with, she'd be doing the same thing. It's just a sign of her immaturity. I'm know you love her, and I'm sure she has many good qualities, but she needs to grow up. Eventually, she will. One way or the other.
cm
Re: bad day today (its really over) lumbeeman: i went to pick up my oldest daughter after work, my wife was outside and said we needed to talk, she said that she cant keep me on a string anymore that its not fair to me, she says she loves me but not in that way passion, sex .she said its just not there. damn it hurts bad, its time for me to give up i guess, i feel numb, i want to cry but no tears will come out, the bad thing is that the whole marriage wasnt good really, but i kept hope that things would change, i guess they did, but not the way i wanted it to.ill be glad when the 27th gets here, will be my first session alone with the therapist.i feel relieved but depressed at the same time, just too many emotions right now,someone tell me plz that itll be ok
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