Re: Ut Oh... The dreams and sad thoughts are back.... chaotic: You know how when you go to the amusement park and you ride that killer roller coaster. You got off swearing that you would never ride again. You go on about your day at the park....Then when you are leaving the park, you have to pass by that roller coaster in order to leave right?
Well when you do pass by it, it brings back all those horrible memories of the ride, but you dont have to get back on, its just memories.
You are passing the ride on your way out of the park. You dont have to get back on. Come ride the tram out with the rest of us.
Re: Ut Oh... The dreams and sad thoughts are back.... brielle123: Crystal, this is just a bump in the road...you HAVE been doing excellent. It is only natural that you are going to feel sad about the relationship that you lost with her every now and again. It just sux, plain and simple and I wish that I could help take your pain away....you know as well as we all do that this wave of sadness will pass....it is just temporary.
You are a very positive, uplifting and funny person...I know that when I am going through my relapses of grieving, sometimes I go back and read some of the responses that you have given me these past few months; your words of encouragement always make me feel better. I only wish that I could be as helpful...
Keep your head up girl (((HUGS)))
Re: Ut Oh... The dreams and sad thoughts are back.... Crystal_Blue_024: I'm sitting here at my desk with tears pouring down my face, and I dunno why.... I just feel so sad..... I feel so broken and empty.... I just want someone to comfort me.... But there's no one.... It's just me... Alone.... :'( :'(
Re: Ut Oh... The dreams and sad thoughts are back.... brielle123: (((MORE HUGS)))
It's gonna be ok Crystal....you aren't alone, you have OJARians here to comfort you!!
Get it all out, if you need to cry then cry....if you need to scream, then go out to your car and scream...do whatever you need to do to let it all out. I know that always helps me....
I know it is hard to focus on anything but sadness right now, but try to think about something that you have been looking forward to....I know you mentioned some Thanksgiving plans that you seemed excited about....maybe try looking thinking about that.
Or treat yourself....go have some fun tonight with friends, help take your mind off all the insanity!
Re: Ut Oh... The dreams and sad thoughts are back.... 2be: Yep, another down time in the roller coaster. Don't worry, it is just your emotions purging... let it flow and you'll get through it.
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