All the papers are signed it is officially done. Deadinside: The divorce if final, the papers are signed. I technically have no ties to him any more. Why do I feel so down about it? I mean, he cheated, he is with someone new. They are freaking having a baby, so I should feel like celebrating. I don’t. I didn’t the day I went to court 2 ½ weeks ago and I still don’t today even knowing that all the papers are signed and we have jumped through all the legal hoops.
It has been a little over 4 months since the split and while I have made some great strides in my life since a part of me still feels empty and alone. When does that end? I mean 10 min. ago before I talked to him and my lawyer I was having a great morning. Will someone please let me off this f’in ride?
Re: All the papers are signed it is officially done. BobFromAcctg: Hate to be the one to be the bearer of bad news but I have been seperated for 16 mos and the papers are hopefully to be signed by the end of this month. I was the one that left but I still know I will be devasted. I was married 25 years though so that time frame makes for a longer grieving period I guess.
This I do know though..it just takes time.
Re: All the papers are signed it is officially done. katbuttkid: Got to love the fast divorces huh?
You know, even tho I'm absolfrickinglutely 100% postive you are SO better off without him, you need to mourn.
I mean, it wouldn't be right if you could jusy suddenly switch gears and be out wooping it up or not feeling badly because you lost something.
It's normal, and what's more, I think it means you have a soul, and this relationship effected it some.
Do'nt worry, you're going to be all right. You did what you needed to do.
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