Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE pinko54: Met a guy, 10 days ago (online). Here's the timeline. Tell me if I'm going down in heartbreak flames:
--Monday the 6th, he emails me via the online dating site
--Same day I reply as interested.
--We catch eachother online and do the IM chat thing. Whoa, hes cool !
--Tuesday the 7th, we talk on the phone - 2 hours or some crazy s---. Havent had a 2 hour conversation with a guy since Cliff in 9th grade.
--Wednesday the 8th we MEET at PF Changs - there was magic in the air - sorry, sorry, i cant help it but thats totally how i felt it and i know he did too.sorry so sorry for that ghey ass phrase. We left things with a timid short lived kiss.
-- Friday the 10th - he picks me up this time for dinner at the local trendy place - he even calls ahead to get a nice spot. He leans over for a kiss, and this time i nearly fall off my chair.
--Saturday the 11th - he drives over, and we go out for lunch. Crazy chemistry in the air. We go back to my place, and yes, do the deed. I have a birthday party to go to, so I have to leave, and the next day I'm destined to leave for a tradeshow in vegas. We determine that we wont see one another for (gasp) 5 days. He asks if he can accompany me to vegas... I say, what the heck - yes.
--Sunday the 12th. We meet at the airport and are on different flights, he leaves first, I follow an hour behind. We meet up at baggage claim and take a limo to the hotel. Have drinks, talk for hours, go upstairs, then downstairs for dinnter, back upstairs. (god i sound like a whore, i think im answering my own question)
-- Monday the 13th, his flight leaves in the AM, we have breakfast, and he takes off. We are all smiles.
--Mon-wed, we talk on the phone and email a bit.
--Thurs the 16th, I go to his house for pizza and... (there i go again- superwhore, or maybe its not bad and my catholic guilt is getting the best of me?)
--Today, Friday the 17th, I'm set to hang out with him after work.
--> Should I cancel to give us some space? Do you think hes going to get sick of me as we've spent a ton of time together in a super short period?
Thoughts? I really like this guy and want this to last longer than a moon cycle.
thanks
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE icwtsmnl: yeah, slow it down. if he's truly interested, he's not going anywhere.
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE 2be: Sounds to me you guys are in the infatuation state. I wouldn't say it's a booty call... but then again I've never had a booty call woman, so maybe I don't know what that entails. Sounds to me he's really into you going to vegas and all. A booty call (to me) would be NOT calling you after the first hook up.
Slow things down... but have a conversation about it. Going from 200mph to 20mph without an explaination might cause some confusion.
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE jannette Garcia: If it was a booty call he wouldnt have talked to you on the days he didnt see you. But then again I've never done the whole booty call thing soooo I can't say.
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE sheydp: Booty call is JUST sex - is that what this is? Doesn't sound like it...
Shey
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