Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE chaotic: I say if you are enjoying his company and all...Have fun, go with the flow. Be careful not to get clingy all of a sudden though...There is no faster way to turn a guy away than to get clingy.
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE pinko54: Its not looking good. I just had this IM conversation with him:
HIM: i got us reservations for sushi.........you in?
ME: omg yes !
HIM: cool........7:30 down the street from me
ME: sweet !
HIM: what time will you get out of work?
ME: today, I think about 515 or so. I have to run a few errands -- what time would be a good time to arrive at your house?
HIM: anytime after 6:30 works.........is that ok?
ME: yes - perfect
ME: 4 hours until i see you.
ME: i hope that you dont feel that im monopolizing your time... and if i am just say so ok
ME: it takes a mac truck to hurt my feelings these days
ME: jsut putting that out there k
HIM: dork........I invited you.........but I do know we are both used to our independence and I appreciate you beeing sensitive to that.....I am too.......
ME: ok then
HIM: communication is the key right?
ME: absolutely
HIM: so you score points for communicating
HIM: there are times where I just want to hang out alone ........I am sure you can relate
ME: i can...
HIM: then we are on the same page........
ME: im glad about that... so 4 hours then...
HIM: you got it........I am gonna run now......got errands etc to do.........I'll be back here just after 6 myself...so c u then....k?
ME: see you then
It's over.
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE 2be: What? Are you kidding?
That sounds like a great conversation to me. ANY successful relationship needs "personal" time. All I hear him saying is that occasionally he likes to have "me" time. So should you! No relationship should be SO dependent on one another that they don't have individual interests.
Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE pinko54: Met a guy, 10 days ago (online). Here's the timeline. Tell me if I'm going down in heartbreak flames:
--Monday the 6th, he emails me via the online dating site
--Same day I reply as interested.
--We catch eachother online and do the IM chat thing. Whoa, hes cool !
--Tuesday the 7th, we talk on the phone - 2 hours or some crazy s---. Havent had a 2 hour conversation with a guy since Cliff in 9th grade.
--Wednesday the 8th we MEET at PF Changs - there was magic in the air - sorry, sorry, i cant help it but thats totally how i felt it and i know he did too.sorry so sorry for that ghey ass phrase. We left things with a timid short lived kiss.
-- Friday the 10th - he picks me up this time for dinner at the local trendy place - he even calls ahead to get a nice spot. He leans over for a kiss, and this time i nearly fall off my chair.
--Saturday the 11th - he drives over, and we go out for lunch. Crazy chemistry in the air. We go back to my place, and yes, do the deed. I have a birthday party to go to, so I have to leave, and the next day I'm destined to leave for a tradeshow in vegas. We determine that we wont see one another for (gasp) 5 days. He asks if he can accompany me to vegas... I say, what the heck - yes.
--Sunday the 12th. We meet at the airport and are on different flights, he leaves first, I follow an hour behind. We meet up at baggage claim and take a limo to the hotel. Have drinks, talk for hours, go upstairs, then downstairs for dinnter, back upstairs. (god i sound like a whore, i think im answering my own question)
-- Monday the 13th, his flight leaves in the AM, we have breakfast, and he takes off. We are all smiles.
--Mon-wed, we talk on the phone and email a bit.
--Thurs the 16th, I go to his house for pizza and... (there i go again- superwhore, or maybe its not bad and my catholic guilt is getting the best of me?)
--Today, Friday the 17th, I'm set to hang out with him after work.
--> Should I cancel to give us some space? Do you think hes going to get sick of me as we've spent a ton of time together in a super short period?
Thoughts? I really like this guy and want this to last longer than a moon cycle.
thanks
Re: Am I Just A Booty Call - NEED ADVICE icwtsmnl: yeah, slow it down. if he's truly interested, he's not going anywhere.
