Re: Follow up.... goldman: I'm trying to be as supportive as I can without approving, I guess. My only request to him was that our son not be pushed aside when the new baby comes along.
Why do the mean people get to move on?? :D
Re: Follow up.... tirisfal: Because they lack the compassion that you are feeling right now.... :(
Re: Follow up.... icwtsmnl: [quote author=MammaJamma link=topic=37556.msg404684#msg404684 date=1163814405">
Why do the mean people get to move on?? :D
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they move on, but eventually face the stuff that comes back to bite them in the ass.
Re: Follow up.... allmusic76: Hey Mamma,
Good for you!... I know a lot of people tend to want to tell the stories of what their exes did to them, to the other people they end up with.I think it takes a lot of moxie to stand up and let things slide.
As weird as it sounds, I wish my ex the best. She alienated me, demoralized me, abandoned me, among other things that made me feel not so good. However, when I think about it. I possess the tools to get over it and move on. What must her toolbox look like if this is how she treats people? It must be pretty empty. She'll find herself in a cycle, repeating the same actions to other people, hurting them. So I wish her the best. because the pain I feel will subside, but her unhappiness will come back to haunt her until she can overcome those issues.
Re: Follow up.... goldman: Thanks, all of you. Your replies were really nice to hear. All to often, I feel like the evil ex-wife.
He just dropped our son off and spent 30 teeth-grinding minutes in my driveway yammering on and on about all of the stuff he hates. How did I function in the same house with such a negative person???
