Re: Follow up.... goldman: She's not the OW or anything like that. It's been a while since he and I separated so there are no hard feelings toward her. I'm just a little stunned, to say the least.
Re: Follow up.... tirisfal: But even if you told her, would it matter, would she listen? It's a waste of energy to feel sorry for her.
Re: Follow up.... goldman: Oh hell no. I wouldn't warn her or anything. I'm not getting in the middle of that steaming pile again!!! Just a weird situation.
Re: Follow up.... yella: You feel a sense of compassion for her, and that actually makes you a very good person.
I commend you for that considering an innocent life will be brought into it. It's sad that she doesn't know what she's in for, and it's even sadder that she'll learn most likely after the baby is born.
I think that's what's worse about the whole thing.
Re: Follow up.... tirisfal: [quote author=MammaJamma link=topic=37556.msg404680#msg404680 date=1163813617">
Oh hell no. I wouldn't warn her or anything. I'm not getting in the middle of that steaming pile again!!! Just a weird situation.
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Okay, phew!! Had me worried. :-\
Smiley is right, it is very sad. I haven't had to deal with this (yet) but I am sure what you are feeling is normal and not unhealthy. I guess I am just saying, don't dwell on it too much.
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