Re: Remaining friends??? jadedangel: [color=navy"> I'm with the ... it depends on the factors. First -- I think it depends alot of what you can handle and what he can handle ... if you truly can be just friends. If it ended badly ... probably not the best situation to beginning a 'friendship' ...
Though with that said .... I don't feel it's hopeless at all ... in fact -- me and my ex are actually really good friends right now .. We talk about more things now than we have for a long time. We keep each other up on our lives ... and talk about things I never thought we would talk about again. He was my best friend when I was with him .. and it took alot to get to where we are -- so you need to decide if it's worth the price. He's changed ... I can't deny that -- but, I like knowing what's going on in the life of someone who had such a huge impact in my life. So -- it can work ...
Don't get me wrong .. I have a few ex's that would never put the effort into it -- but if you truly want to make it work ... it's possible.[/color">
Re: Remaining friends??? anewday: If it's causing you that much pain, then I would say it is not working for you in this case.
