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Re: why do we fight so hard? trapped: [quote author=vdc_1975 link=topic=37569.msg404775#msg404775 date=1163850546">

Hopeless romantic

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OMG the apocolypse is coming...I am somewhat agreeing with VDC.  ;)

Yep, hopeless romantic. Thats me.  Thats a lot of us here as you can tell by so many posts.

Sucks.  But I guess its better than the alternative.
Re: why do we fight so hard? lumbeeman: [quote author=trapped link=topic=37569.msg404837#msg404837 date=1163868181">
[quote author=vdc_1975 link=topic=37569.msg404775#msg404775 date=1163850546">

Hopeless romantic

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OMG the apocolypse is coming...I am somewhat agreeing with VDC.   ;)

Yep, hopeless romantic. Thats me.  Thats a lot of us here as you can tell by so many posts.

Sucks.  But I guess its better than the alternative.
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yes hopeless romantics always seem to end up hopeless lol ;D


Re: why do we fight so hard? trapped: True. True Lumbee~~

A very kind OJarian wrote this to me in a pm as we were talking about this very subject:

Romanticism is a good thing. Although romantics feel pain and hurt profoundly, we also feel deep sublime joy. Something a lot of people never do. We feel passion, which is rich to the human experience, a lot never do.

So therefore I wouldn't swap being a romantic for anything in the world. But it just hurts sometimes, ya know?


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I tend to agree with him.  It hurts like hell but its who we are I suppose.


Re: why do we fight so hard? MEP2006: I fought so hard because "disasterous" and "ridiculously awful" felt more normal than "healthy" and "sane". It may have something to do with being raised by an abusive, alcoholic father, and then repeating that relationship over and over and over again with the men I've dated. But I'm ready to stop living that way and find a new version of "normal" that doesn't include destructive, combative, wrecking-ball relationships.
Re: why do we fight so hard? vdc_1975: [quote author=trapped link=topic=37569.msg404837#msg404837 date=1163868181">

OMG the apocolypse is coming...I am somewhat agreeing with VDC.   ;)

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MAybe this means I'm not necessarily Satan's handminion!!  :D

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