When you know its over, TJsDAD: Hello to all ,
I think I just realized my marriage is really over. Wife left 2 monthes ago , she left to llive with a roommate who is a guy..At first she was telling me he was just a friend , I never believed that. Well , I over heard a conversation they were having , my son forgot to close her cell phone when were done talking , so I eavesdropped and heard things that confirmed what I already suspected.
We were married 11 years and together 13. I have the greatest 4 year old. She left because she was no longer happy. Our marriage was not perfect , but I would never have left. She has moved on..I am struggling daily , dealing witht the fact she is now sleeping with another man. I took her less than 2 months to get over me. I think she had this planned for a while.
This sucks...I no longer get to see my son everyday because of her actions. I thought we would grow old together , no I just feel like I am growing old.
I really want my wife back , maybe in time she will see the grass is not always greener. Maybe she wont?
So my question to you all is...When you know it's over...what did you do??
How did you deal with the fact he/she may never come back??
TJsDAD
Re: When you know its over, Gren: [quote author=TJsDAD link=topic=37570.msg404776#msg404776 date=1163852500">
She left because she was no longer happy. Our marriage was not perfect , but I would never have left. She has moved on..I am struggling daily , dealing witht the fact she is now sleeping with another man. I took her less than 2 months to get over me. I think she had this planned for a while.
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Me too - anyone with a heart wold take a little longer over everything you built together right? I feel ya brother - it's been a month and a half, and she thinks I'm stupid if she doesn't know that I know...
[quote author=TJsDAD link=topic=37570.msg404776#msg404776 date=1163852500">
This sucks...I no longer get to see my son everyday because of her actions. I thought we would grow old together , no I just feel like I am growing old.
I really want my wife back , maybe in time she will see the grass is not always greener. Maybe she wont? [color=red"> She won't - sorry...[/color">
So my question to you all is...When you know it's over...what did you do??
How did you deal with the fact he/she may never come back?? [color=red"> I'll let you know...[/color">
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Re: When you know its over, JNA: TJsDAD wrote: "At first she was telling me he was just a friend"
Always be careful of the just a "friend" statement...
My ex had many "friends"
Most of those potential well...
Ya know
Whenever it comes to a woman pay special attention to the "actions" and not the "words"...
Actions speak louder than words
It is an Axiom...
I'm sorry she hurt you in the manner she did...I've felt the same hurt in ways ok
TJsDAD wrote: "So my question to you all is...When you know it's over...what did you do??
How did you deal with the fact he/she may never come back??"
I told her "exactly" what and who she is then told her to kiss my...Well
Some things you don't do to people ya know...
You will see this in time too...After the pain fades
Then you will find someone more worthy of you...
IMO
Stay Strong
JNA
We don't seek betrayal...
But if we choose to go back then it is our fault
If someone cheats on you once...
Then they will again
Bet on it...
Best odds in the house...
