angered/confused ebl: My husband of 10 years suddenly left me back in March after I discovered that he had an affair with a co-worker whom he's only known for 2 months.
He immediately moved out and filed for divorce. I was completely blindsided by this divorce (and the affair)
Anyway, about a month after, while I was still devastated - and I admit, this was probably a dumb move, I started to date this guy - just to pass time and to try to get over my divorce.
After about two weeks, I lost interest because as I told him, I still love my husband.
Can you believe that the guy went haywire?? He told me to pay him back his $300 that he spent on dinners/lunches, etc.
He then starts a sobbing story that I led him on, blah blah blah, and that his kids need money (even though his father is wealthy - and this guy owns real estate) I have absolutely nothing to my name.
When I pointed these things out to him, he tells me, "Well, it's the principle here that's involved - and you led me on".
Then he told me that he was going to murder me because he feels so "scammed" by me.
Immediately, I contacted my brother who's a cop and my brother warned him.
I am so enraged by this guy's behavior towards me. He knows what happened to me with my husband. What's more - I am completely disgusted that I even considered dating a complete nutcase who is he. Yep, the guy even disgusts me.
But I'm wondering - anyone have a clue as to why I feel a complete disgust/rage towards this guy?? Because I've been feeling that way even before he threatened me.
Re: angered/confused baffled!: This guy sounds like a complete freak - I you probably picked up on his vibe before the whole "I think I'm going to murder you" thing.
You must have really had an effect on him - he's sounds rather angry...
I don't really know what else to tell you... thinking that there are people like that walking around makes me want to move to the moon.
Re: angered/confused ebl: [quote author=baffled! link=topic=37573.msg404791#msg404791 date=1163858579">
thinking that there are people like that walking around makes me want to move to the moon.
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Oh yes, I know the feeling.
Re: angered/confused lumbeeman: id say you learned the hard way like alot of us going too quickly to another person, as i did the same and it ended up crazy, but its obvious this guy has some serious issues no matter what the situation is
Re: angered/confused idocsteve: [quote author=ebl link=topic=37573.msg404787#msg404787 date=1163857702"> anyone have a clue as to why I feel a complete disgust/rage towards this guy??
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Because he's a psychopath and you can always tell.
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