My sister... again... yella: I'm getting closer to wiping the floor with her.
My plan today was to go to the airport with my parents to pick up my grandmother. I was going to have my ex drop the boys off at my mom's because my sister would be there, and I knew we'd get back later than expected.
I get to my parents' house, and my mom and sister were shopping. When they got back, my younger niece told my sister about how her older sister tore up a folder and threw it away because she didn't want her to have it. No big deal, right? It's a folder.
Anyway, my sister literally blows up at C and tells her to add another week onto her punishment. A week! Are you kidding me?!
I hear C crying hysterically in my mom's room, so I go in. I ask her why she's freaking out and she tells me that she doesn't understand why she's punished for a week for a folder. I agree with her.
So, into the kitchen I go, and I look at my sister. Very quietly and unconfrontational, I ask my sister, "Isn't a week kind of harsh for a folder?" My sister gets mad, and yells, "Is she your daughter?! You have no say!" Instantly I start fuming. I say, "I don't care if she not my daughter, I'm just saying that a week for a folder is a little extreme."
She says something to me, I burst back at her, and it all begins. This has a lot more to do that just a punishment over a folder.
My sister is extremely abusive towards my niece, and talks bad about her father to her, yet demands that C respect him. On top of this, and I posted this some time ago, she left her 1 year old in C's care while she went upstairs to f*ck her playa boyfriend (who's cheated on her countless times). My nephew starts crying, C takes him upstairs and sees them naked on the bed in the middle of the act. My sister had the nerve to leave her door open so C could see all.
My sister is a b!tch. Plain and simple. When we were kids, my mother told her that she can't date a guy who was in a gang, so she got mad, had the kid steal my parents' car, and had it torched. She was only 14 at the time.
She got pregnant when she was 17, and now has 3 kids because she doesn't know what condoms are.
So, all of this kind of built up, and I blew up. Keep this in mind.... my sister is 3 years younger than I am, is 5"5", and weighs at least 250 lbs. I'm 5' tall and weigh less than 140 lbs. I was so mad that I was literally an inch away from her face ready to get into battle. My dad had to pull me away from her. If he didn't I would have hit her. I had my hands up ready to go, and would have done it.
Two things stopped me... my dad... and the fact that the kids were there. Otherwise, there would have been a fight, and one of us would have been hospitalized, and it wouldn't have been me.
Anyway, I was shaking from rage, grabbed my stuff and left. The whole time my mother chased me out the door and begged me to come back in. Like that was really gonna happen. I was smart and said, "If I don't get out of here now, you'll have more to worry about than Thanksgiving dinner. I need to cool down, and be left alone."
I drove home still shaking, and my dad calls me on the way. I rejected the call. When I calmed down enough to stop shaking, I called him back and he said that they were on their way to pick me up. I told them that I wasn't going and to just keep driving. They show up anyway. Bad move...
My mom's at my door, I open it, she hugs me, I do nothing. I told her that I need time, and that she needs to leave, and she refused. Ok, then....
I blew up again. I told her that I'm sick of her giving into my sister and letting her roll all over her. I told her that her whole life she's steamrolled my parents, and they let it happen because they're afraid of her. I'm not.
Again, when my sister was a kid, she called DSS on my mother because my mother grounded her for being out until midnight with again, another gang member. She was 15. For 6 months my mother endured hell from that, and I saw it all, and couldn't do a damn thing.
For years I was told to shut up and let it go. Not anymore. She abuses my niece, and someone has to stand up to her. That someone is me. I won't rest until she pays for what she's doing to this girl, and what she's doing to my mother. I've been quiet... I've let it ride. I'm done.
I'm not being quiet anymore.
Re: My sister... again... jannette Garcia: Wow smiley, I'm sorry for what you're going through! Your sister shouldnt do that! It is not fair to her kids! Gosh I can't believe people do that to their own kids! (((((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))
Re: My sister... again... yella: Thanks, Jannette.
She only cares about herself, and always had. No one else in the world matters.
Oh, one more thing I forgot to add... I told her that if she keeps on this road, C will be pregnant by 14. I honestly believe that. She's now too scared to even tell her therapist her whole story for fear of being punished by her mother.
How f*cked up is that?!
And forget about her coming to me to talk... my sister reads ALL of her e-mails and IM conversations. Plus, she sits in the room when she's on the phone. So this kid has no outlet at all!
Re: My sister... again... jannette Garcia: omg poor girl! she probably will be pregnant by the time she's 14. Probably to just get out of the house and live on her own if the mother is like that.
That is really fucked up that she can't even confide in her therapist! wow! that's plain evil, and your sister is evil! sorry but that's just wrong! >:( I can understand why you wanted to hit her!
Re: My sister... again... Lumpy: Don't let her babysit your kids! Outside of that, I don't think you can do much about how she handles her kids. You don't tell a mother how to raise her kids. It's just asking for a fight.
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