Re: How do I approach her? chaotic: Nice thing is she is standing at the visitor's table. So she is expecting people to come up and talk to her. Just do it!
This coming from the guy that climbs with a girl he cant talk to.....but got incredibly drunk in front of friday night.
Re: How do I approach her? doodlesmore: bob you sound like a very nice person. I would like to think that introducing yourself to this lady would be a step in the right direction to taking control of the situation. You like her and want to say hi but your afraid of rejection. If you continue to do nothing....hun....nothing is gonna happen.
Re: How do I approach her? *Tricia: look at it this way...everytime you approach a woman, no matter whether it ends postiviely or negatively, it allows you the opportunity to gain confidence. Even if it ends without a phone numbers or a coffee date, whatever, It is practice. Had you not ever approached her you would kick yourself for not even trying. It's better to live than to watch others on the field kicking the ball you want to kick around. (perhaps poor analogy but you all understand the intent of it)
Re: How do I approach her? hudson: I agree with the others. You must approach her. Just walk up and say "hi, how's it going?".
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Its hard because what keeps running through my mind is that the woman who knew me the best (the stbxw) rejected me, so once this lady gets to know me, she will do the same. I know its stupid but there it is...
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I'm hearing you on this one. But you know what, you know the kind of person you are. You know you deserve much better than your ex could've ever given you. This woman at your church isn't your ex. Just because your ex rejected you doesn't mean someone else won't value the very things that your ex disliked about you.
Re: How do I approach her? BobFromAcctg: THe "I don't think we have met" is good. I will try to do that.
Its hard because what keeps running through my mind is that the woman who knew me the best (the stbxw) rejected me, so once this lady gets to know me, she will do the same. I know its stupid but there it is...
I will try (again)..
Thanks for the ideas.
