I need advice anewday: I spent so long being angry. Hating him. Wanting him to hurt and die. Painfully.
Slowly my anger is fading. And I am left with sadness and longing. It has been six months since he left me.
I miss him. I miss my husband.
I was writing out my holiday card list today. I was wondering if I should send one to him. My first thought was this: I know this holiday season is going to be hell for me to get through. I don't wish that on him. I wouldn't wish this on anyone. I wanted to let him know that I hope he has a nice holiday. That's it. An olive branch if you will.
Is this a bad idea? Should I send him a holiday card?
Re: I need advice TJsDAD: My stbxw left 2 monthes ago. I will not be sending her a card or a gift for the holidays. She no longer wants me to be her husband , so this is what she will get.
I wish I was never put in this situation , I did not choose to be here. It hurts , but cut off the contact.
Just my thoughts ,
TJsDAD
Re: I need advice sheeps: It may seem a trivial thing...a Holiday card. But, when one spouse leaves another and abandons the vows of Matrimony, that abandonment includes the trivial along with the elemental.
Don't send it. Besides, would it really be an "Olive Branch" or a plea?
I'm sorry for you, the first holidays, anniversaries, and birthdays are the hardest.
Re: I need advice allmusic76: I guess it all depends on why you are sending him the card. Is the card platonic or romantic in nature?
Re: I need advice icwtsmnl: [quote author=sheeps link=topic=37596.msg405511#msg405511 date=1163977028">
Don't send it. Besides, would it really be an "Olive Branch" or a plea?
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this is key. even though you say "it's just to be friendly", you already said you feeling longing and hurt. think about it.
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