Re: update - called it quits Spike: Hopeless, you are not!! Helpless, well, yeah, you can't help her, she needs to do it herself, and until then, she is poison to your growth. Leave it alone for some time, maybe quite some time. Be good to yourself for a while.
Re: update - called it quits tripny2k6: I know thats what I need to be doing but I find it hard to even show up for work let alone doing something for myself.
Re: update - called it quits Spike: I know, but it comes. It's almost like a retraining you have to go through, but it comes. PM me if you want some details on the process. I'm through it.
Re: update - called it quits tripny2k6: This of course is especially tough with the holidays fast approaching. I'm dreading tis time of year right now. Its so hard to be around people that are so happy when you feel so down.
Re: update - called it quits tripny2k6: Well, after 2 days I finally hear from her. She forwarded me some texts that I had sent her out of hurt and told me this is why she does not try and to not talk to her. I always love how she can just run all over me and then when I lose control and retaliate with words, she focuses on that.
Seriously, how can people go through life and not hold themselves responsible for the things they do to people? I spent 3 nights in the hospital last week b/c of the shit she is putting me through. She couldnt even call my family to see if I was still alive. But I'm the ass for seeing that is wrong. I know I shouldnt have opened my mouth and said the mean things, but what does she expect from me?
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