Re: update - called it quits tripny2k6: Yes it is. October 1st we sat down and talked for 4 hours about how she had made a mistake in trying to make herself believe that we werent meant to be b/c of all the obstacles we had to cross. Now she is doing the same exact thing that she did before. Its like, how many times do we have to go through this pain before you make up your freakin mind?
Re: update - called it quits Spike: You can't do it alone, Trip. She seems unwilling to choose a path. Maybe it's best if you just move on, and break all contact with her. Sometimes the extreme is the only way. If you are meant, you'll meet again.
Re: update - called it quits tripny2k6: Its funny that you say that. We keep crossing paths and this last time we thought that it was meant to be. Maybe I just need to cut bait and let go of all hope with her. I've done all I can.
Re: update - called it quits Spike: Again, even completely detaching yourself from her, there is the chance that it is meant to be, and you will find that later. For now, take care of you, just enjoy yourself, and who you are. She may need to do the same just for her own well being.
Re: update - called it quits tripny2k6: I guess. I was doing so good with myslef a couple of months ago b4 she and I started talking again. But it was the same old story after a few weeks. The same problems and the same lack of effort on her part. I found out last week that she is scared to really commit to me b/c she is scared of another failed marraige. I've given her no reason to think this and I was the one in counseling long before we even started talking again. I dont know. I feel so hopeless right now.
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