Re: How Screwed Up Is This? Spike: I agree with Sheeps. Now, he wants to step up and be a man??? WTF!!!!!
Re: How Screwed Up Is This? startingover: He made a really valid point though, one that I have been trying to tell him for weeks now, but he finally got yesturday. The health issues aren't imaginary. As hard as it is I either allow this to happen or we turn the kids over to the state for the time being.
He just called me. His girlfriend just broke up with him when he told her. So much for the trust and love they seem to share. ::)
Re: How Screwed Up Is This? Spike: So, now he is unstable, from the breakup, and he is going to come and care for you and the children? Perfect, ummm may I suggest some sort of counselling during this. For all of you.
Re: How Screwed Up Is This? sheydp: [quote author=tatteredandtorn link=topic=37612.msg405750#msg405750 date=1164028400"> As hard as it is I either allow this to happen or we turn the kids over to the state for the time being.[/quote">
Have you checked with social services? They are usually pretty good about sending in home-care assistants. It just seems that him living there would set you ALL back, at a time when you have enough stress...
If you didn't care about him at all... MAYBE... but you will just be eating your heart out and the two of you will be back and forth. This just sounds... WRONG. There has to be another way.
Shey
How Screwed Up Is This? startingover: Now that the stbx gets it that I've got health issues going on and my house is falling apart he brings up today, on our son's b-day, that he is considering moving in to "take care" of us.
If it were to happen he would be sleeping in our youngest son's room and I'm supposed to except the fact he has a girlfriend and all that goes along with that.
