Re: Please can somebody help me. Crystal_Blue_024: Just hang in there hun... I know what it feels like to be slammed back after all the progress you've made... But you'll make it again... Just dig those heels in and start moving forward again... You can do it! We all can do it! ((( HUGS )))
Re: Please can somebody help me. ezydriver: But its so final. So confirmed. Like I really did mean nothing, yet, she was my world.
How devastating to me. She, within a few months, has met somebody, fallen pregnant and has a whole new life. When she met me she wasn't over her failed marriage. Then she cheated on me, then has obviously met somebody else, or it could be the other man. Either way, why the fuck wont she have some alone time to sort out her (very deep and complex) issues?
Somebody tell me she is making a big mistake. And that it'll all come back on her.
Ok, thats not right, but it would help right now to hear how it wont work.
Re: Please can somebody help me. Crystal_Blue_024: It won't be the magical fairytale for her that you're imagining... She has too many issues within her own self to have a true, fullfilling, meaningful relationship... My ex is fucked in the same way... She's so screwed up in the head, she's got a ring from some dude she's only known for a month, yet is still calling me, she's got MAJOR issues...
Just be glad that you are no longer a part of that, you no longer have to deal with those issues, you no longer have to be a part of her own fucked up ways of thinking... Your life is YOURS now... Try to take comfort in that...
Re: Please can somebody help me. turning leaf: [quote author=ezydriver© link=topic=38008.msg410821#msg410821 date=1164738091">
She was a loony. She had a failed marriage and I highly suspect her 11 year old son was only born because she wanted to trap her husband. I know he was accidently conceived. She did try getting pregnant to me in the last week, no, last DAY of our relationship, but failed. She actually tried to get pregnant and was saying stuff like "I'd love to have a baby with you". Despite constantly maintaining that if she ever did get pregnant, she would abort as her first son f-cked her life up and kept her form leading the life she wanted. She is deeply insecure and doesn't know how to love herself, her son and especially not others.
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Why do you want to be a part of this psycho pattern?
Do yourself a favor and be good to YOU. Why waste your time finding out if karma works on her or not?
You can't save her. She's self-destructive. Why allow yourself to be destroyed in the process?
Re: Please can somebody help me. Spike: Ok, here it is man. You have to let it go. You meant something once, or you wouldn't have been together. Now it's time to move on. You also need to inform friends and family, that you don't want to know her goings on. It will only keep biting you by letting them tell you. I went through that.
C'mon, bro, you can stand up to this. Move on to a better life.
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