So Huge!! JoBo: I realize that this is off topic, but I have to say it.
I've spend the last 40 or os minutes scrolling through the 530 pages that is the "Your Story" section of Ojar. I've read stories from people back in 2003 who just lost loves, met wives at Starbucks after she had the affair, moved accross the country, gone on first post-divorce dates...
This is just so much bigger than I ever imagined, and not only Ojar but also divorce and support and everything. I feel like it openned my eyes.
There's been talk lately about "true ojarians." I'm realizing that Ojar is so deep and has helped so many people and has seen so many tears and so many smiles that, that statement is completely false. Nobody really is-
Everybody who comes here eventually leaves- it's the natural progression of things. It may take a few months or a year, but they eventually leave. (Maybe not Michael, but everyone else).
I just wanted to point out how large it all is. And also to invite anyone to spend an hour or so lookig through the old posts. You may be surprised and find somebody from 12 or 24 months ago with the same issues as yourself.
Re: So Huge!! MadorSad: Bingo.... You my friend have found the true power of OJAR.... Look in some of the other sections too....
You can follow the progrestion of members from the begining to the end.... Oh and some of us never left ;)
Re: So Huge!! sheydp: I myself am hitting my second year this January - but JimB tops us all, I think? How long has he been giving his excellent advice?
Shey
Re: So Huge!! galil: LOL I went back to see alot of my old post and they are no where to be found :-\
Dont end up like me and find yourself going thru it twice ;D
My first trip around here was in 2002
some good people back then and now.
