Re: The Big V Crystal_Blue_024: I'm with Mel, on the whole idea of it being so permanent.. It's only reversible in 70% of the cases... I would definitely think about it long and hard before maknig any drastic decisions...
Re: The Big V big_daddy: I have zero regrets. It doesn't matter who I meet in the future, between my 3 kids and whatever kids they'll likely have....I have enough child rearing in my life.
Re: The Big V Inkedmp: [quote author=just_me_detroit link=topic=38037.msg411817#msg411817 date=1164834137">
Big Daddy, Ink,
Do you have any regrets that you had it done?
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sometimes when i think about not haveing the little girl i wanted, but guess it was not in the cards for me, also i have the though that what if i find a woman that i want to be with, she does not have kids, and wants them with me, then what. i only got it cuz my stbxw talked me into it. and now she does not want to be iwht me, kindda sucks but i will get by
Re: The Big V superwife: I'm with the girls here. I mean, if I was to meet any of you guys and really loved you ;), it would not change anything long term. But I think I would always be wondering 'what if'.
And I think it's kind of a slap in the face for the guy, because you had to do it, (because I'm sure the wifeys said "I gave birth, this is the least you could do") and now your ex's are free to keep procreating, and you're not.
Just my $.02 :-\
Re: The Big V alonewith2: [quote author=SuperChick link=topic=38037.msg412994#msg412994 date=1164928074">
And I think it's kind of a slap in the face for the guy, because you had to do it, (because I'm sure the wifeys said "I gave birth, this is the least you could do") and now your ex's are free to keep procreating, and you're not.
Just my $.02 :-\
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That scenario goes both ways. My sister had 3 kids (all girls) with her husband. Then they BOTH decided that she would get her tubes tied because even though they had wanted a boy, 3 kids was enough for both of them.
Then her husband cheated on her and left her for a much younger woman only a few months later. He went on to have another child with this woman, and he STILL has that choice to have another child.
My sister went on to marry a man who didn't have any kids of his own. He accepted her and her 3 girls, but she knew that he would have loved to have had a kid of his own. She confided in me that it wasn't fair that the option was taken from her, yet her exh can go out and provide children to whoever he wishes.
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