math for men lunnah: Big suprise that a man told me this, but anyway, he said the perfect age of the woman a man should be with is figured out this way:
take the man's age
divide it in half
then add seven
In other words, if you are a 30 yr old guy, half is 15, plus 7 is 21. So a 30yr old guy is best with a 21 yr old girl.
Any guys out there have an opnion???
Re: math for men alonewith2: I've heard this theory a lot on this board, and I always wondered why the men weren't too upset by it. I mean, we should all be with someone who's at our same maturity level, right? They say women mature faster than guys, emotionally, mentally, etc. So basically that rule always made me think that a 30 year old man has the same maturity level as a 21 year old female. Doesn't that irk you men? ???
Re: math for men pluscachange: [quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=38041.msg411299#msg411299 date=1164800114">
I've heard this theory a lot on this board, and I always wondered why the men weren't too upset by it. I mean, we should all be with someone who's at our same maturity level, right? They say women mature faster than guys, emotionally, mentally, etc. So basically that rule always made me think that a 30 year old man has the same maturity level as a 21 year old female. Doesn't that irk you men? ???
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That's a non-sequitur. You've posited your own theory ("we should all be be with someone who's at our same maturity level") and then tacked that theory onto this thread which is not dealing with maturity level, but 'age a guy should be with girl wise'. The age of the girl doesn't necessarily have to do with her maturity factor, and a guy's priority might not be finding a girl at his maturity level.
Granted, this entire theory is just that, somebody expressing their own preference (for whomever made it up). But let me say this. I'm not sure I would want to deal with women my age after I split for good. Almost to a tee they're all divorced (which is fine) but also very, very bitter, bordering on man-hating (for whatever reasons), cynical and jaded. Me, personally, I could do with a bit of innocence and happiness in a partner, without having to delve down and mine it out of her like it was some rare gem in a dark, dank coal mine of angst. If there are exceptions, naturally I'd consider them, but I'm wagering, based on my peer group knowledge right now, that those women are few and far between. Far more common are the wine drinking group-bashing cynical types who sit around jeering "men are dumb!"
Re: math for men doseyclwn: If I'm not mistaken, that's some bullshit Nation of Islam crap that Elijah Mohammed came up with so he could bone young girls.
Re: math for men alonewith2: [quote author=pluscachange link=topic=38041.msg411303#msg411303 date=1164803059">
[quote author=alonewith2 (SNB) link=topic=38041.msg411299#msg411299 date=1164800114">
I've heard this theory a lot on this board, and I always wondered why the men weren't too upset by it. I mean, we should all be with someone who's at our same maturity level, right? They say women mature faster than guys, emotionally, mentally, etc. So basically that rule always made me think that a 30 year old man has the same maturity level as a 21 year old female. Doesn't that irk you men? ???
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That's a non-sequitur. You've posited your own theory ("we should all be be with someone who's at our same maturity level") and then tacked that theory onto this thread which is not dealing with maturity level, but 'age a guy should be with girl wise'. The age of the girl doesn't necessarily have to do with her maturity factor, and a guy's priority might not be finding a girl at his maturity level.
Granted, this entire theory is just that, somebody expressing their own preference (for whomever made it up). But let me say this. I'm not sure I would want to deal with women my age after I split for good. Almost to a tee they're all divorced (which is fine) but also very, very bitter, bordering on man-hating (for whatever reasons), cynical and jaded. Me, personally, I could do with a bit of innocence and happiness in a partner, without having to delve down and mine it out of her like it was some rare gem in a dark, dank coal mine of angst. If there are exceptions, naturally I'd consider them, but I'm wagering, based on my peer group knowledge right now, that those women are few and far between. Far more common are the wine drinking group-bashing cynical types who sit around jeering "men are dumb!"
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True I combined two theories. Thought it would be an interesting topic to discuss.... :P
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