I can't believe you! johnnzd: I'm coming to terms with my future & you not being a part of it. It's hard. It hurts but I am sucking it up knowing you have moved on and there is no love left for me in your heart. You have the nerve to show up crying when it is time to go over the divorce paperwork. Telling me "can't we just wait. Do we have to do this now?" Ummmmm YES!!! Oh how quickly we forget. Don't you remember Jess when you told me that in your mind we are already divorced & the paperwork was just a formality. You told me in no uncertain terms that we were through, that you were already out dating just 2 days after I moved out. So I spent 10 hours on this f&cking paperwork fighting through tears so I can be free. Because, to me, we are still married. Until the judge says otherwise, I am chained to you. So lets get that clock ticking because I want to move on. Are you telling me that you are having doubts?? I bet not. I bet you are just scared about having to face the world without someone else. Because you can't be alone - you never could. I bet those weren't tears for me. But why go & f$ck with my head?? Now I am wondering, no questioning myself. Did I do the right thing. This is EXACTLY why I want no contact from you. Nothing good can come of it. Go cry somewhere else. I have my own tears to work through.
I don't want to love you anymore.
I am tired & my heart can't take anymore.
Re: I can't believe you! JNA: John wrote: "I am chained to you."
You are not "chained" anyone...
And if you feel you are "chained" by your Vows or the Church
Well "no" one keeps there vows anymore period and the Church has proven to be well ya know...Not so Ethical per se
John wrote: "I bet those weren't tears for me."
They are "never" tears for you...
My ex can drop a tear like a dime
She called it Female Persuasion...
And some women do it A Lot
Learn from it and never get "played" again...
Hard to explain in a short post
The thing I like about my ex was she is a Liar and she gets "caught" in them
She got caught on a board then was pissed as me for it...
No Baby you did it "all" yourself
LOL
JNA
Re: I can't believe you! chaos40: JNA your ex and mine must be twins. I am so amazed at how she can switch personalities like a light switch. I guess they all have that ability to some extent
Re: I can't believe you! galil: Once again JNA you have hit the nail on the head.
JNA is right. It s not about you at all. It is only about them.
My ex said some goofy things as well, I read into them the wrong way. dont make that mistake.
I think people like this love to hurt people like us. For some reaon it makes sense to them. They can justify all there actions and try to get everyone to feel sorry for them.
Your wife left you and it is dead. So Do you realy want to be a volunteer for more heartache?
I choose to not get hurt anymore. the one way I can guarantee she cant hurt me is NOT TO PLAY.
I never have been a huge fan of the no contact idea, but when you are dealing with these type of people not playing is the best defense.
