Re: Cheating bisexual wife?? 2be: I have to agree with the counceling thing. In my opinion, it is cheating regardless of the other person's gender. Just because it was a woman and crosses that "guy fantasy" boundry of two women together doesn't mean that it is any less wrong than her cheating with a married MAN whose WIFE was okay with him experimenting with your wife.
Now I do understand that some people have sexual identity issues that they bury and pop up years later. I know my Xwife admitted to me that she had a romp with her best girlfriend while in college and she "leaned" that way too.
But in my opinion, it is still cheating... even kissing and fondling. And being drunk is no excuse. Alcohol should never be an escape. People need to control their urges no matter how intoxicated they are. The alcohol only brings out what is already inside them, and this is something she needs to figure out.
YOu need to look inside yourself and see how this affects you and your relationship. I give her points for being honest with you but before she experiments any more, you two need to lay down some ground rules, etc.
Good luck...
Re: Cheating bisexual wife?? just_me_detroit: In my opinion: Lesbianism GREAT in theory. BAD in actual practice.
Or Great unless one of them was my wife :-\
Re: Cheating bisexual wife?? catanddog: We had two very long and intense conversations yesterday. She started by telling me she would never do it again. Then I explained how it was infidelity and she understood the seriosness. For the sake of the kids we are not even considering seperation, but we will no longer associate with the other couple. She heard me load and clear and was a little scared. Her and her female friend just kissed and gropped, so she does not see it as all that serious. I am not so bothered, but in the future she know this is unacceptable and has promised not to do this again. Thanks to all that supported me over the past couple of days.
Re: Cheating bisexual wife?? Freckles: That was a Triple
She Cheated - Adultry on You
She also Cheated on Her Kids - Adultry on them
And She did it with a Woman
I would put GPS in her Car and purse
Re: Cheating bisexual wife?? vdc_1975: [quote author=Freckles link=topic=38102.msg413933#msg413933 date=1165013936">
I would put GPS in her Car and purse
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Yeah great idea!! What a way to rebuild trust between them. ::)
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