Re: AM I A WIMP??? trying to cope in Ky: Cherry I know how you feel. I dont stand up for myself either. I dont like being the bad guy as I wouldn't want people to do me like that. BUT I have to realize people dont control me. I do feel for ya. I would hate feeling insecure in my own home. Oh wait I do feel that way, what am I saying...lol
You will stand strong I know it. Good luck!
Re: AM I A WIMP??? Cherry: I feel like my attitude is a liability right now.
Re: AM I A WIMP??? JimB: [quote author=Cherry link=topic=38104.msg412334#msg412334 date=1164897285">
I never minded before the girl who is my friend (the one he is friends with) told me he thought I was hot and wanted to have sex with me. She told him I had a boyfriend and he said........not for long. She says he was joking but I dont think so. She even told him not to stop by last night and he did.
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So never mind the specifics of what you need to do - can you imagine the effect this is having on a fragile young mind like mine? If this works, I really gotta change my approach. Let's see - have her friend tell her I want to have sex with her - check. Insult the guy she's with - check. Initiate stalker behavior - check. Hey, why isn't this working for me?
Cherry, you referenced your history of abuse here, and I suspect it has an impact, but don't use it as an excuse. You've done plenty of thinking about how you're going to kick this one to the curb - now just do it. Think about it too much and you'll paralyze yourself. Write yourself a quick phone script (it helps) and call and give this cooze-hound the boot. If he persists, call the cops.
Re: AM I A WIMP??? Cherry: LOL, Jim, thanks. Yeah I dont know what planet he thinks he is hot on?? I cannot remember ever acting like that when I was 19 ::)
Okay, I meant that I didn't mind hanging out with these people, I realize I didn't clarify this.........
The whole thing is making me uncomfortable and I did make a call this morning to tell my friend C that A wasn't allowed to hang out at the house etc........she said she understood. I would have called him, except he doesnt have a phone and I dont want to encourage him either.
And my bf is less than impressed with the guy in question. This just irked me. But I dont know why I always try to be nice and not hurt someone's feelings instead of just being matter of fact and telling them to hit the road.
Re: AM I A WIMP??? MadorSad: MoS Law
Tell low life to go away.......
Your fear is simple when you stood up to people in the past they yelled screemed and hit you......
You need to over come that fear.... Remember not all people react like the people in your past....
I could be way off but, some how I doubt it.
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