what do i do? please someone give me some advice. xXBroknRomanceXx: I guess ill start this like any other story. I had been with my ex for about a yr and half. i cared alot about her and would do anything for her. i made her the center of my universe. we had a lot of ups adn downs. more then i think the usual relationship. In august we had been together for a yr and her family was goign to move to texas and i ended up moving with her from california to texas and left everything behind. i had to start fresh and pretty much learn everything new. i left school, work. family, and jsut the whole enviroment. This last month we were having problems she had been hanignig out with her friends that she met through school and work. She started hanging out with them and it sucked i didnt like it one bit. I felt like she was like in a sense leaving me for her friends. She is 16 and im 20 just turned it. I know myself that at that age i didnt think of my one and only and pretty much justmy friends and having fun. I live with her and she woudl tell me u know whats me leaving for a couple of hours. She had a guy friend in specific that she takld to a lot. she said they were good friedns and i didnt believe her. but i tried. They would talk for like an hour sometimes 2. he would always call her and she would cal him. i was not comfortable with this like im sure noone would. I had a lot of turst issues with her because me and her got together because seh cheated on her last bf. Well they started hanign out going to dinner and justhanign out and i didnt like it. she told me not to worry she would never cheat on me but i didnt believe it. Well this monday we broke up. she said she did not want a relationship anymore and that it was to committed for her. i understood but still wanted to work things out because i knew it was more then that
Well i kept trying to talk to her but she wouldnt budge. she talked to that guy on her phone and called him andl eft him messages on myspace. saying yay were goign to hang out today! or call me as soon as u can so we can hang out! given we were stil together it reminded me of when me and her first met. Its hard i left the house last night at 1 30 am. we had another fight. i jsut left when she was sleeping and wokeher up and told her i was leaving. i found a text of her saying to her friend i made out with him and idk if was a good idea cuz i barely know him and we just sat there and made out. and another saying she had a little crush. this obviously crushed me and pist me off. i asked her again if she liked him she said no. i told her she was full of shit. i left and heardbroken we woudl sleep at night together and hug but not nomoer....it was over. and it really seemed so. i dont know if they made out befoer or after but still it made me mad because showed me she didnt have much respect for what was happening.
I left her house and i feel like shit. i miss her. i thinkabout her. hurts to nkow that another guy might be doing the same with her that i did. well im moving back to my home in california. her mom was on my side and said that sehis sorry and she wil miss me. I want to talk to her and be friends....but i dont think i shoudl from what ppl tell me? i want her back. and the worst thing is her family is moving back in june and for some reason i find myself wanting to get back together when she coems back. right now im not tlakin to her she texts me to see how my drive isgoign and if im alright. i dont know if she will regret it buti hope she will im just in a dark place right now but i look forward to being home. in the end what should i do? give it time and talk to her? not talk to her? be friends? hope we can get back together? idk what to think and it feels lke im making amess of thinsg. there is alot more that had hapened but i dont think i could fit it. i miss her....i think thats it. i want to be able to try and fix things when she moves back. if we still care. and idk her mom says this time is goodfor the both of us cuz we can see how much we care about each other. i know she has a crush...but liking someone and loving someone are different. i know i have not been a good bf for the last month but its to lte to act. i just dontknow what to do i want to talk to her and her tell me the truth is that bad? i know i still love her and it hurts. and i just think to myself what she feels. plz if anyone can give me any advice plz. i want soemthign to look forward too but im afraid that it really jsut might be over completely and i shouldnt try to mend things.
Re: what do i do? please someone give me some advice. seyfert: Hey,
I'm sorry for your breakup. Losing someone you love is hard at any age, but can especially painful when you are so young and have no friends to support you through this.
Moving back home is a good idea. You will have people who love you and give you a chance to get grounded again. Since you asked for advice, here it is: leave her and get on with your life. She is 16 and has a great deal of growing up to do. She needs many years to do that.
She is already doing it. She wants to hang out with her girl friends and date other guys. Trying to hang onto the relaionship is bad for you. She will only say things because she doesn't want to "hurt you," but she's going to see go out with other guys.
The pain you feel now is brutal, don't make it last for next ten years.
