My wife cheated on me with my friend longing: I am confused as to what should I do now.
My wife had an affair with my friend and didnt disclose it until its too late. Now, we three know that I am not biological father to this baby. She says, it was an affair and didn't think that it would come this far.
I am angry and sad. When I think about the baby I feel so sad that he didn;t know about all that happened. I am worried how is he going to take it when he grows older.
My friend is single and he says he will take care of both my wife and baby. As I told my wife I can not trust her anymore so we will apply for divorce soon. I am also worred that what tif his guy doesn't take care of them. What happens to their lives.
Please help me take a decision what should i do? Just move on with my life! or should I hang around for them? how long?
Re: I am a legal and moral father but not biological ebl: Why do you worry if the man is going to take care of the baby? Is he known to be irresponsible?
I don't know - do you love your wife enough to continue with the marriage?
Re: I am a legal and moral father but not biological longing: Thanks for your reply ebl.
So far this guy has been irresponsible and for last couple of months I can see change in him. Positive. My worry is about my wife. She was married before as well and went through very similar break up. Then she didn't have a baby. Now, it is different as there is a baby and most probably she will not get any support from family and friends for what she has done.
I love her and care for her well being. But, I can't trust her anymore. She has been cheating me for more than a year. I can't be in a relationship with her. As I care for her I want to be friends. She loves the baby too much given that he was born premature. We really took care of him well. He is now well and healthy. She want to give her son both mother and father. (her father was died when she was a child). therefore, she wants to keep in touch with the other guy. Lately I came to know that they both are sexually close as well.
When we got married, I wanted her to have a great life. But now this happened. I can't be with her. She says she doesn't want to marry this guy and want to be with him. I worry, he may not take care of her and may even have other relationships outside.
Also, I am worried that if I continue to support her and I may become too involved in their lifes and that may lead to other problems. I may end up not having a good life for myself.
As I said I am too confused. I don't know whether I should just take care of my life and move on????
Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend Freckles: The only person who can decide this is you.
I will Pray God helps you through this ultimate betrayel.
Mybe she repented
???
Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend stillfightin: Sorry man,
I can't be as wholesome as the rest. It is best for you to move on. She cheated, had a baby and now she will have to deal with it. Get away from her and worry not about her problems. I know you care deeply about her but she betrayed you and you deserve better. Work on yourself and make your life better without them. They are not your responsibility. She's an adult, let her figure it out.
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