Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend ebl: yeah, get away from her. If you go no contact, she will appreciate you. She won't appreciate you if you pine for her - she'll continue to do the same thing. As far as your relationship with her this is pretty much the only thing you can do.
Now if she approaches you later (I'm sure she'll miss you and beg you to come back, etc), then maybe try to work things out- however, due to her past record, I could never trust someone like her
Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend longing: Thanks for your replies guys. Yes, thats what I have decided. I set her free and if she comes back after realising what she has done. I will consider give that I love her very much. But, I won't ask her to come back. As proverb says if you love someone set them free, if they come back they are your own otherwise they were never yours in first place. Thanks guys. Good luck to you all.
Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend Feel: Longing... does your wife love you? How long did this affair go on for and is she still allowing you to be part of this childs life... so did you just up and walk away, do you still want part of this child?
you haven't mentioned your X's feelings at all in this, how does she feel, and why couldn't you just all work it out! Did she still want to be with you?
Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend longing: Its not matter of knowing whether she loves me...... as she continued to see the other guy. Since there is child involved I left it for her to take a decision. At the moment she's gone overseas to see her parents and show them the baby. Before she was going we both have decided that we both should live seperately.
She kind of asked me to forgive her. But, I asked her "How could I forgive her?". I would have forgiven her had she told me about the affair by herself. Or even if it was one time thing or for a short period still I can understand. If it went on for 18 months and even after discovering if it is continuing then what should you think? I had to find out the affair thats been going on for almost 18 months. I care for her and love her but I can't trust her anymore. Moreover, even when she asked me for forgiveness, she asked only to protect her image.
My worry is only if that guy turns his back on her then what happens to her life and baby's future??? Obviously I will come to know about it and I wouldn't feel too happy. On the other hand if they both get along well and take care of the baby well then I won't worry this much.
Anyway, as I mentioned in my previous blog I have decided to move on. Most importantly I need to pull together my emotions, confidence and self esteem. Therefore, I am going to give year or two years time to heal all this stuff. Once all the dust settles down then I can see clearly whats important and by then she should have realised (hopefully)what she has done(if she didn't do it willfully).
Again, single life is not bad as well after all that you go through in marriage. I know its a total different ball game. I wouldn't have choosen to be in this current situation. What can you do.... sometimes circumstances force you to be tough and take certain decisions for the good.
Anyway guys.... to answer your question whether she loves me..... I don't think so.
Re: My wife cheated on me with my friend ebl: I understand that you love your wife - but it seems that unfortunately, she doesn't want you to be in the picture. The baby is not yours - and even though you might care about the baby's well-being, it is no longer your responsibility.
Let her go completely - if she wants you to be in her life, she'll come back to you.
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