Can't get it out of my head skygatr:
My Ex and I broke up about 8 months lago after a 7 year relationship. Not married and no kids but it hurts like a divorce trust me. The road has been difficult but I've been busy dating other people trying to move on. About a month ago we hooked up and all the feelings came back for me. We tried talking things out but there is just to much animosity from both parties. We both still love each other but I think too much time has pasted and the wounds are just too deep. Nothing bad happened but we just grew apart and became roomates instead of a couple. She told me about a guy that she's seeing and it's killing me. I asked some questions that I wasn't prepared to hear the answer to. There's never been an issue of another guy, but it's here staring me in the face and I'm overwhelmed with anxiety. How do you keep your mind off of what's happening on the other side of town? Why would she hook up with me and show me all of her feelings, crying and all but in the end not want to work things out. I know the answers to most of the questions but I just need some reassurance. I sent her a text the other day that was a little rude but I appologized in an email. She completely slammed me down saying not to expect anything more from her. I was floored and I responded telling her she would never hear from me again. Is anyone else going through a similar situation? please help....
Re: Can't get it out of my head baffled!: The emotions are still very raw... I'd advise against hanging out for a while - you're going to keep opening old wounds...
Easier said than done... I know.
