So anyway the wife left me after 11 years of being married. Mr. Incognito: And I am thinking I should take out a life insurance policy say at around $100,000 on myself payable to her then suicide by cop. Maybe then she will know that I love her. Has anyone ever felt this way?
Help me my chest hurts, I cant breathe, and all I can think about is how sshe has moved in with the guy who put siding on my house.
I wonder if maybe we should not have moved to florida.
Re: So anyway the wife left me after 11 years of being married. flipflopnomore: Slow down. How long have you been in the situation?
If its not long, it does get somewhat better. Not great but better.
Trust me on this, deseperate things like begging, pleading, and crying dont work. Neither does suicide with insurance policies.
This will be all about her. You will read on this site that the WAS are very selfish people and its all about them and their issues.
Give some more details about your situation and maybe we can help. Hang in there.
Re: So anyway the wife left me after 11 years of being married. Cherry: It hurts when you have been betrayed by the one who holds your heart. However suicide in any way shape or form will not give you back what you had.
You can move thru this and let it fuel you to bigger things. Or you can take a permanent way out of a temporary pain.
There is no quick fix for this, but you will learn and grow so much and the future will still hold wonderful things. They are only different not better or worse.
It is what you make of it Incognito, hang in there.
Re: So anyway the wife left me after 11 years of being married. ebl: I understand how you feel. I've had this pain for 8 months already, and I'm so sick of feeling this way. My husband left me suddenly for another woman who's 10 years his senior. He immediately filed for divorce afer 1 week of my finding out about his affair. He threw away his 10 year marriage for a co-worker whom he's only known for 2 months.
Anyway, suicide is definitely not the answer because it will only end you life (obviously), and it will reinforce your wife's belief that she made the right choice by leaving you cause "you were not right mentally". You definitely dont want that.
Welcome to Ojar/ emotional prison, though.
Keep posting, and we'll try and help each other as much as possible.
