Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup worchid76: [quote author=Mango25 link=topic=38574.msg419556#msg419556 date=1165715868">
Drc,
I understand the need to share. I have a similar story. Broke up with my ex, but stayed in touch (we weren't working it out, but weren't letting go either) and then I found out he was lying and seeing someone else. I was tremedously hurt and a lot of pain ensued.
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:-[ Sounds like me... This sucks!!!
Anyway. No biggie in the email sending thing. She should have know that if they start a relationship while a man is still with someone else they will do the sme thing to them.
What goes around comes around.
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup Drc: Well he has cut off all contact with anyone that is not his immediate family or girlfriend so I don't need to worry about talking with him. In some ways there is good that has come out of this for me, but I still feel horrible.
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup 2be: Well you can tell him it was you if it will clear your conscious, but in my opinion it is water under the bridge. You fell victim to your emotions, and understandibly so... and I think you understand the consequences because of how bad you feel.
But honestly, if your X was that bad in your relationship, why spend any more energy on him? He's a cheating liar. Ask yourself why you need to stay in contact with him, even to admit to this mis-step.
While I don't justify what you did, he made his bed... let him sleep in it.
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup MEP2006: He DID make his bed, and you're right, why would anyone want to make up with a cheating liar? Sometimes I wish our hearts could understand what our heads see so clearly.
