Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup icwtsmnl: my point is, why would you want to stay friends with him now, knowing what you know?
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup tripny2k6: Seriously, this guy is not a good person.
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup tme4me: Just going to chime in for a second but I know where your coming from. My x cheated on me and left me for the other woman which I didn't know...We did a trial seperating and were working on things then I found out he already had married the other woman...so he cheated on me with her and cheated on her with me... the lies continue to this day and I know they always will...Once a liar always a liar they can't change it because its their way of life..If I didn't have kids with him I would never speak to him again.
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup Drc: I feel sick about what I did. I don't know what came over me... Anger I suppose. He started therapy a number of months ago and I thought he was changing. He has made progress, but he's not there yet. Why do I talk to him still? Because the friendship always outweighed the romantic relationship and now I don't know. He doesn't know it was me, I haven't spoken with him in 5 days, and I don't know if I should come clean or let it go. It wasn't the maturist thing I've done in my life.
Re: Need to share horrible response to breakup MEP2006: Break ups, especially bad ones, make us all go a bit crazy. Don't let this plague your mind. It's going to pass and will fade into the background. You aren't guilty of anything worse than what we've all done or felt through our own mind-warping times of pain.
I would continue to keep contact at nil. It's so hard at first, but it's going to make this far easier on your heart. Take these words for truth. I wish I had in the beginning.
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