Re: children saftey question here bamacannon: I was thinking about this over the night. Don't children REQUIRE adult supervision? I mean, 14 is not even old enough to buy a good video game much less take care of a 2 year old. I'm pretty sure if you can prove that he abandoned the children, aka left them with someone incapable of providing care for them, aka the 14 year old step son; then you can easily have his visitations revoked, at least temporarily. I'm not sure thats what you want to do but maybe it would be a push in the right direction. Now I can see dad saying "I need to run to the store, back in 10 watch your brother" but not "were going xmas shopping, well be back whenever, fend for yourself".
Re: children saftey question here tme4me: Oh I'm looking into do whatever I can to make sure it doesn't happen again so we'll see. However I don't consider myself an unreasonable person and I would have been fine with #1 him not lying to me because then I could have just not dropped of my children or #2 him being gone for 10 minutes to get food or whatever I would have sat in the driveway at least until he pulled up (just in case anything happened) but the I'm xmas shopping none of your buisness answer doesn't fly with me. He thinks I just didn't want him out shopping which isn't the case I dont care what he does just let me watch the kids or take them with you. A house with 6 kids rangeing in age 2-14 isnt safe, even daycares have limits on how many kids per teacher (and there adults). Theres a million dangers inside of the house and kids aren't equipt to handle them which is why they require ADULT SUPERVISION!!! Just my opinion...
Re: children saftey question here worchid76: Shopping is SOO not more important than waiting for your kids. Or he should have gone shopping earlier.
Ass wipe ::)
Re: children saftey question here PennyLane: By no means did you over react. I would have been outraged if that were my situation. What a bunghole!