Re: i never thought memories could hurt this much.... JNA: [quote author=fading17 link=topic=38593.msg419851#msg419851 date=1165793445">
thanks JNA,
everybody keeps telling me the same thing. i tried to tell him it was me and him 100% or not at all a few weeks ago...and he said he was sorry i felt that way and if thats what was best for me then i should do it. but he said as much as he cares about me and wants us to be back together, he doesnt think it would be wise until he sees what else is out there. he wants to get back together with me and be 500% sure..no doubts. im his first and only gf so he feels as though he has missed out on some experiences. it doesnt help that i am a part of the reason our 4 year relationship ended....
im sorry u had to go thru all of that....thanks for responding
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fading wrote: "and he said he was sorry i felt that way and if thats what was best for me then i should do it. but he said as much as he cares about me and wants us to be back together, he doesnt think it would be wise until he sees what else is out there."
Read what he said a "year" from now...
You see they keep us off balance and our heads spinning for a reason
Our hearts are hurting...Our brains are a mess and spinning then we cannot look at things clearly...
Because sometimes the "heart" rules the "mind"
If someone truly cares about you then they would never tell you that but ya see some people just have NO conscience ok...
That would be him and someone I met a time ago
They are one in the same because it is about...
Them..Them...Them
There hurts...There needs...There problems...
You can fulfill all the needs for them but when they find one that fulfills it better then Goodbye sucker
Again not to be harsh but the cold hard truth ok...
fading wrote: "he wants to get back together with me and be 500% sure..no doubts. im his first and only gf so he feels as though he has missed out on some experiences."
Well don't take this wrong but if I were told the above then I would "put" myself out there to just to see if I have missed anything...
Then when Romeo comes along tell him ya know what...You were right
You and I have both been missing out on something...
GoodBye
But...I know you and I are the same and love from the heart so our types cannot do that...
There in lies the problem
We are good people dealing with people that are "ugly" inside...
So all you can do is try to look out for yourself and Protect Your Heart from here on out
I read boards where the "so" called Don Juans post...
Read boards where Players post and other sites of the "vengeful" but the ones that will win in the end are the ones that post on boards like this one
Because we are "Healing" and "Learning" to avoid types like these in the future...
We are lifting ourselves up ok
Stay Strong
JNA
