Re: help.... tripny2k6: She just left me a voicemail asking if I needed something when I called this morning. :-( HOw nice.
Re: help.... tripny2k6: I just sent her many texts asking why we have to go through all of this, that its killing me. I followed with many messages of the love that I have for her, etc. No response as of yet and I feel like a freakin idiot. Im so sad at the same time. I dont know how one minute last week she tells me not to be surprised if she shows up on my doorstep bent on one knee. THe next she doesnt even try to contact me all weekend and when I do she asks if there is anything that I need... :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
Re: help.... Mr. Incognito: It sucks feeling like your being led around on a collar dont it? I have been doing the same thing with my wife. When I spoke with her on friday I asked if there was any chance at all of us tring to make it work the answer was a straight up NO. that sucked.
Re: help.... mav100: I hate to say it, but if she's acting like she is confused, saying one thing, doing another.... She most likely is.
Putting pressure on her won't help. As HARD as it is to do no contact, you should do it. Talking to her and telling her this stuff accomplishes 2 things:
Letting her know she has you on a string.
Letting her know that she can come back any time she wants.
Change your attitude towards her. Act like you are apathetic about things. Don't call, write, or text her. Pulling away from her for a few weeks might just be what you need to get her to head back in your direction, and it will help to heal and move on if she decides she doesn't want to come back.
Honestly, I'm not great at no contact myself. In retrospect with my situation, had I done it sooner, while she still seemed like she was confused, things might be alot different today.
Re: help.... tripny2k6: I just told her that I think its best if we go our seperate ways. She is very confused and its not doing anything but hurt me. :'( :'(
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