Why do they tell us these things?! tirisfal: I just talked to my mom. My sister told her that my ex now has a myspace page....
Why do I care?! And now why do I want to look!
Re: Why do they tell us these things?! LostTeacher: i don't know what it is....people just think that we constantly want to know what is going on in their lives. my friends and family are like that too.
today i was shopping with my mom, and she saw my ex and another girl in a store together. i didn't see them, and wouldn't have even known or worried about it, but my mom had to tell me. i was like "i don't care....it doesn't matter."
sometimes you just have to set the line straight, and tell them that you no longer care to hear about every little thing that they are doing. that this is one time where ignorance is bliss. because all that info makes you want to do is find out more, and more, and more.
LT
Re: Why do they tell us these things?! kitkat: Maybe because they think they would want to know. Yes, there is a time for most people right after the split that they want to know...however it's hard for a lot of people to put themselves in your spot of having moved past that part.
Just a thought.
Re: Why do they tell us these things?! smokin: because most of the time, they get a myspace page to check out you, and your pictures. i had to go private on mine, because of this..........
goose luck
Re: Why do they tell us these things?! Crystal_Blue_024: Don't give in to the urge to look for your ex's myspace... It will ONLY bring you pain... Stay far far away... I haven't looked since October, and I don't plan to... I know I have this sick urge to know what she's doing, but I know if I look, it will only hurt ME, it will have no affect on her... So I don't look... I won't cause anymore pain to myself.... Steer clear...