Do you think that you will ever be "in love" again? Is it possible? destinydriven: This question has been on my mind lately. The first time my ex and I went somewhere together, he put his arm around my shoulders. I knew at that moment that I was completely his! I still remember that feeling, and I can't even describe it.
Anyway, I was just thinking that I will probably never feel that with anyone else. Now that I am carrying around all the baggage and bitterness that comes along with loving someone who tossed me aside without looking back, and being so deeply dissappointed by someone who I completely loved, trusted, and was committed to. I can't even listen to songs like "Spend My Life With You" or "Endless Love". I can't imagine ever being truly "in love" again.
Do you guys think that it is possible?
Re: Do you think that you will ever be "in love" again? Is it possible? yella: I think it's possible, but when you start dating again, it's important to know the difference between real love, and something that fills a void. Sometimes it's harder to tell the difference so soon after a split.
Time to heal is essential in order to know if you're really in love again. I think you'll get those feelings again with someone new, but you'll be much more aware than you ever were before.
Re: Do you think that you will ever be "in love" again? Is it possible? flipflopnomore: I wonder the same thing. I know with my stbxh I saw him and wanted him so bad. He was attractive and fun. He was also a very big challenge. He went thru women like crazy, so when we married I felt like he was a conquest. Stupid and not great husband material, I know. Now he is reverting back to that same man. But there was this instant "thing". I wonder if I will ever feel that again, too. This guy I have seen a couple of times now is a great guy with lots of great qualities and potential. But I am not feeling that "wow" factor. I am attracted and he is fun to be with, but I am not moving heaven and earth to be with him either. He is definately the one pursuing me. Feels nice for a change. I don't know, maybe its the walls of hurt up from my stbxh.
Re: Do you think that you will ever be "in love" again? Is it possible? pluscachange: Love is not reason, it is not logic. It comes unbidden and often stays long past its due. We can consider the reasons why we would, or would not, welcome it, but Love itself pays our thoughts no heed, and comes when it will, as it wants.
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That's my way of saying yes, it is possible.
Re: Do you think that you will ever be "in love" again? Is it possible? zjmusashi: When you can let go of some of that baggage and bitterness, you might just find it sneaking up on you. Like people have said, take the time to heal, enjoy the ride, and don't worry about the destination.
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