Re: this is going to be long, but i need help!!!! lumbeeman: brother your story sounds too familiar, i went through it also, but i was a dumbass and kept going back and forth.it hurts but you are not to blame.you gave it a try so walk away knowing you were willing to go back.things will get better for you.its just starting and things will get worse before they get better.nothing lasts forever buddy not even heartache.you will come out stronger.
Re: this is going to be long, but i need help!!!! m2g4b: thanks for the replys people, they were good reads to know that my situation has happened before is happening now and will happen to someone else again!!!! last night i did find out thru the BF that they have been seeing eachother for over a year off and on, while me and her were still together.....so it makes sense of her attachment to him. anyway, i feel pretty good today, i had came along way to where i was in the 3 months before she hit me with this. but i think i will bounce back faster this time, knowing that she "loves" him and wants to be with hurts, but knowing that she is not the person that i thought she was for the past couple years almost cancels that hurt out!!!! i think i have come to realize that i am holding onto a dream or fantasy, nothing more, there is nothing there to hang onto but a hollow person with no feelings.....time to walk away!!!! thanks again people, and im glad i finally posted!!!!
