Found something out...Not sure how to feel chaotic: Well, most of you know me. My story is much the same as others, however I am at the end of mine.
My ex left me for another man earlier this year. Our divorce was finalized in October and we have continued to be civil and maintain a friendship.
Today I found out that she is pregnent. No its not mine. The father is the guy she left me for. The guy is a two time loser with 2 children from 2 different wives. One of the kids he is not allowed to see. He even told my X that he would give up visitation with his other kid just to move out of state with her. He has also not been able to hold down a job for more than 2 years...
So he has done something so bad that the courts decided he cant see one of his kids. His other one, he is willing to turn his back on, just to get my ex to leave the state her friends live in. And now, he has a third baby to handle with a woman he has not married yet because his second divorce is not final yet.
So I dont know how I am supposed to feel.
In a way, I feel bad for the baby, because I know whats in store for him/her. In a way I feel bad for my X because, I forsee this guy taking off once the honeymoon has faded.
On the other hand, if my X is destined for single motherhood, I am happy because then I will know that karma has finally caught up to them. Because the guy will now be responsible for 3 kids and she will be stuck raising a child on her own knowing she left the one man that would have seen her thru anything for a loser that has proven his loserness multiple times.
Right now, I am wishing I could be a fly on the wall at christmas dinner at her father's this year when her father meets the guy that split up our marriage and got her pregnent out of wedlock with an illigitmate child in tow.
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel fkunone: Cool thing is, that you already are kind of outside of the situation. It seems odd because on a human tip it's natural to feel bad. On the other side, you don't have to do anything about it, y'know?
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel chaotic: [quote author=Juggernaut link=topic=39020.msg425382#msg425382 date=1166558630">
Cool thing is, that you already are kind of outside of the situation. It seems odd because on a human tip it's natural to feel bad. On the other side, you don't have to do anything about it, y'know?
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You are absolutely right. I get to watch the Karma movie from the comfort of my own home.
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel vdc_1975: [quote author=chaotic link=topic=39020.msg425371#msg425371 date=1166558361">
So he has done something so bad that the courts decided he cant see one of his kids. [/quote">
Too bad they dont do court-ordered vasectomies!
I bet you are having alot of strange feelings right now, it would make me feel really weird as well.
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel fkunone: [quote author=chaotic link=topic=39020.msg425392#msg425392 date=1166558923">
You are absolutely right. I get to watch the Karma movie from the comfort of my own home.
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Yeah! Then go find a mountain and SHRED.
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