Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel allilm: I seem to remember you were with your wife about as long as I was with my stbx. Is it odd that you were together that long and didn't have a child, and then she got pregnant so soon after your divorce? Obviously I don't know if it was a decision made or an accident realized.
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel 2be: Wow, chaotic...I understand how you feel, especially being like a television show. I feel the same way about my X and her life. At first, everything that went wrong in her life after we split was like a knife in my heart and now there is little to no emotion involved. Well, the same amount of emotion I'd feel for a casual acquaintance.
I too feel sorry for that poor baby. But maybe your X will step up to the plate and give that child a good life. Interesting to ponder.
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel Feel: I can't even imagine how I'd feel... wow!
I remember listening to some tapes that my Ex was discusses about the OW and said she wanted him to go with her to the abortion clinic and the girl he was speaking with was telling him he needs to keep his dick in his pants...
That literally killed me. I even had taken him back into the home when this took place, then I had to pretend I didn't know!
You are a good man... I know it also hurts you taht she is being a fool and can't see for herself what this guy is all about...
Have you tried talking to her about her baby... and by leaving the state would be a big mistake, seems like he is trying to seclude her! And does she not see what a looser he his by the repeats with his other children?
I hope you can maybe talk some sence into her... I know you still care for her!
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel icwtsmnl: you say you two are still friends? do you think she might come crawling to you when he takes off and leaves her hanging with the baby?
Re: Found something out...Not sure how to feel chaotic: You know, I have thought about that. I just dont think I could take her back....EVER. I mean, at this point, I enjoy going to lunch occaisionally with her, but its more like we are just friends now. She has broken a trust that in my mind will never be rebuilt. If she came crawling back, it would be like I was second best, just the back up plan. And I wont have that.
I know her father would support the baby before he let anything happen to his grand child no matter how much he disagrees with her decisions. Thats the kind of man he is. However, no matter how much I care for her or feel bad bad for the baby, I have no obligation to her or the child, so if this the the path she has chosen, so be it. I will not let that bring me down from where I have climbed. I wont even give her the "I told you so" that she deserves. Karma.....She can be a b!tch sometimes.
