You suck! JadedButtafly: you should be ashamed of yourself! What kind of man makes the woman he says he loves dread christmas?! I wish it would snow so hard that you wouldnt be able to make your way up the road! I've dreaded this christmas since last christmas, and you know who did that to me, you!? You and only you! YOu cant' even put your feeling aside and act like an adult and think of our children first. Its all about you, how you feel, how you want to spend time alone with me and the kids at christmas. Well guess what i dont want to be alone with you! I would rather have my tounge frozen to a pole than be alone with you! You say you want to spend time with us while you still have it, you lost that privillage the mintue you decided it was better for us to seperate than stay together and work on us like I was doing all alone... without you. Fact is it doesn't work if you don't work with me. So you say.. well you'd like to work on us, that was almost 9 months ago. So you were on the ship and you used that as an excuse not to try! HELLLO that is no excuse just another way for you to avoid the obvious problems. I waited so many times on you to back up your words with actions; you lost that chance! I love you yes.. but you are not the same man I knew those so many years ago. I'm in love with the memory of who you use to be.......I miss him not you. All in all you suck, may the bird of paradise fly up your nose!
Re: You suck! JNA: Yes we fall in love with the "Dream"...
The dream of what someone was or what we envisioned them being
That is the "hardest" thing to let go of for a lot of us...
SExy wrote: "Its all about you, how you feel"
Unfortunately yes it is all about his needs and yours are not important...
I met someone like that a time ago and she is still the same
He is not likely to change anytime soon as I think you are already aware of...
With my ex it was easy
I got done what I had to and got the H out of her life...
With your situation it will not be so easy so start setting bounderies with him
Hope this helps...
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: You suck! worchid76: I wish my hsband was the same man I met. Then again I have changed too :-\
Maybe if he were like back then we would still be together.
Re: You suck! JadedButtafly: [quote"> I wish my hsband was the same man I met. Then again I have changed too
Maybe if he were like back then we would still be together. [/quote">
i am struggling with the same issues; some people change for the better while others change for the worst.
Re: You suck! Cherry: nice new sig EQ :)
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