Re: How did this happen? Phoenix5822: I know how much it hurts when someone you trusted with everything, and gave everything, tells you that it wasn't enough. I'm sorry to hear that your xgf didn't realize what she had. She probably will, but it will be too late.
Re: How did this happen? monkeydude3: I know. She was my first good female friend, my first kiss, lost my big V to her (we lost it to eachother) or so I believe.. I gave her a sweetheart ring and told her it was a symbol of my love and a symbol of what is to come, IE i was saving for the engagement ring...
yes she will realize what she had, but it will be too late. I know some day either her or her parents are gonna go "oh sh**, George was right" Because I kept trying to say she's walkin a bad path, but no one listens to me!!! oh well
Believe me I used to tell her everything, we trusted eachother with everything... I don't know how someone could throw this away, over myspace and screwing around!!!!!!
George
Re: How did this happen? LostTeacher: makes me sad to hear that there are people with such similar stories.
was with my ex since we were 14. grew up together, went to school together, were also the "perfect" couple. where one was, the other wasn't far behind.
got married, got the house, got the truck, got the dog.....but when it came time for the kids, there was an empty hole.
life started changing, feelings were for sure different, but i turned a blind eye. which is probably when the day finally came, when he stood in our new kitchen and told me it was over, that i felt like the carpet had been pulled from under my feet.
in a matter of months, i had moved into an apartment, seperated our stuff, and filed for seperation. he said such terrible things to me, i couldn't imagine that this was the man i had grown up with.
things i learned......when you grow up with someone, they change. unfortunately, that's just a fact. and sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. another thing...you can't change someone else. you can't fix things alone.
finally....you have to learn to love yourself. i didn't. my life was his. and this was partly god's way of telling me to take a long, hard look at my life, and see what was making me happy. and if i am being honest, i was miserable. as much as i still love and care about this man, he didn't make me happy, and i had to learn how to do it myself.
take care....hope these few words help just a little. you are not alone.
LT
Re: How did this happen? monkeydude3: That's a shame.... it's terrible how people can live their lives and at the end break someone's heart out of nowhere.
I really thought I was gonna marry this one, she had that effect on me and she told me every day she wanted me to be the father of her children etc etc
oye!
