Re: we are back at square one, or worse? frankbj: JNA: I totally agree what you mean...
in terms of beauty, that is a big part of the problem I think. I don't fear you may think that I am stupid by saying to you that she is VERY beautiful, in fact she is the most beautiful woman I even met in my life (and to many of my female friends as well). She is a head-turner everywhere she goes, and a part-time model. That is exactly my weakness (everyone allowed some, right?) that I love beauty...... :-[
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? JNA: [quote author=frankbj link=topic=39038.msg426420#msg426420 date=1166689778">
JNA: I totally agree what you mean...
in terms of beauty, that is a big part of the problem I think. I don't fear you may think that I am stupid by saying to you that she is VERY beautiful, in fact she is the most beautiful woman I even met in my life (and to many of my female friends as well). She is a head-turner everywhere she goes, and a part-time model. That is exactly my weakness (everyone allowed some, right?) that I love beauty...... :-[
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I'll have to send you a pic of my ex...
I could have walked into a Hollywood Ball with her and she would still be one of the best looking women in the room
Problem is though...
Beauty Is Skin Deep
A "lesson" I learned that I will "never" forget...
BTW they are still 2 to 1 my friend
((((SMILE))))
You need it...
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? frankbj: [quote author=JNA link=topic=39038.msg427031#msg427031 date=1166753374">
[quote author=frankbj link=topic=39038.msg426420#msg426420 date=1166689778">
JNA: I totally agree what you mean...
in terms of beauty, that is a big part of the problem I think. I don't fear you may think that I am stupid by saying to you that she is VERY beautiful, in fact she is the most beautiful woman I even met in my life (and to many of my female friends as well). She is a head-turner everywhere she goes, and a part-time model. That is exactly my weakness (everyone allowed some, right?) that I love beauty...... :-[
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I'll have to send you a pic of my ex...
I could have walked into a Hollywood Ball with her and she would still be one of the best looking women in the room
Problem is though...
Beauty Is Skin Deep
A "lesson" I learned that I will "never" forget...
BTW they are still 2 to 1 my friend
((((SMILE))))
You need it...
Stay Strong
JNA
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I keep on telling myself that....she doesn't love me, eventhough she said it so many times.....she doesn't really know what love is...beauty is only skindeep....I deserve much better than her.......
But then today is still very hard for me, I found myself really miss her. Probably has something to do with being X'mas and all, I got her a bunch of gifts from my last trip, and was expecting how happy she would be opening them, all these are going to waste now.....I am planning on having a friend (we only have one friend in common) to pass them to her later on.....
Today is really hard for me
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? cafarigirl: I feel for you, bro.
You feel even worse then me after we ended our marriage of 14 years and today is our wedding anniversary.
All I can say is...if you are feeling this way about her and she keeps going back to that guy, chances are, she feels the same way about him that you do for her. Therefore, you are the backup guy that she can fall back on when the guy isn't there for her but the minute he wants her back, you will be the backup guy again.
You have a choice. You need to ask yourself, do you love her unconditionally and will always be okay to be that backup guy and in which case, let her know that and take the consequences and the pain that will go along with that OR, you can make a conscious decision that you deserve more than that, actually believe it in your heart and put together a project plan on how you are going to forget about her. First thing on that list is to have a goal outside of this relationship or any other relationship and focus on achieving that goal. An example could be to quit smoking or get that promotion at work (whether you wanted it or not).
I have faith in you. This is your karma, accept it and move on. Things always happen for a reason. This experience will help you grow and understand the other side of the fence.
I'll always be there for you if you need someone to talk to. When I see you, I want to see a new and improved Frank. It's time to MOVE ON. You are much better than this.
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? frankbj: Thanks, sis....
I am sorry to read what happened to you, and I can't believe we are the same boat pretty much at the same time.
You will be here in about 10 days, and I am not sure if I could be 'upbeat' and all by then, but then I will try my best. Everyday is a battle for me, and so much I am not winning them, but not ready to throw in the towel yet.
I developed a new hobby--Kendo, and this is something I been hoping to learn for years already, and glad that I finally started it. I hope things will be fine, and we both could move on smoothly.
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