Re: we are back at square one, or worse? JNA: frank wrote: "1) I know about her thing with the guy
2) I am not with any woman or funny business here"
Well I leave this thread alone after posting this as I'm sure I have bombarded you...
You can try that is all we can ever do ;)
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? frankbj: [quote author=JNA link=topic=39038.msg425686#msg425686 date=1166583037">
Well I leave this thread alone after posting this as I'm sure I have bombarded you...
You can try that is all we can ever do ;)
Stay Strong
JNA
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No, your advice is highly valued!!!!
That pretty much is the last question I have before I could peacefully carrying out my hiding......or withdrawl
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? JNA: I know you value the advice...Was not saying that but the other gender knows the other side sometimes so I don't want to "control" an entire post...
It's on sided advice ok
JNA
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? Cherry: It seems to me that she is searching for this "security" she feels is lacking. Nothing you are doing, it is an emptiness inside her that fuels this.
You are in danger of becoming some serious collateral damage here. My advice would be to back off. She has made it apparent that she is unwilling/unable to commit to you and your relationship. I know that it hurts, unbelieveably so, but you deserve better and there is someone that will love you without all the bullshit.
I played the back and forth game for a long time and eventually it wasn't only me, but two kids who suffered as well. Time to put the vehicle in gear and burn rubber.
Over time, you will gain strength and it will not hurt as much. (hugs) sorry you are going thru this.
Re: we are back at square one, or worse? ajw: [quote author=frankbj link=topic=39038.msg425679#msg425679 date=1166582734">
Should I somehow send a message out to her to let her know
1) I know about her thing with the guy
2) I am not with any woman or funny business here
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What do you hope to get out of doing that....do you want to get back with her....or just let her know that you know she's cheating?
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