It's official: Irony:
Mediation was over and done with today. My marriage is all over but the final divorce decree which will prolly be coming early in January. I guess I should feel happy, but that emotion escapes me at the moment.
I want to thank all of you who helped me through what turned out to be the darkest year of my life so far!
I don't think I could have done it without the support and friendship of my fellow ojarians!
I feel like I fought the good fight to save my marriage, but regarding the points I lost on, those were issues in our marriage anyway.. things that made it an untenable situation from the get-go.
Wife is still an angry woman.. I'm still sad.. thought I'd be happy about all this coming to an end.
Guess I really loved her.
Again, thanks to all of you who've read my rants, offered support and advice, and stood up for me when a certain person visited ojar a while back.
May you all have exquisite happiness fall into your lives!
catch 22 (aka iron man)
Re: It's official: Cherry: Heya Iron man,
Our pleasure. You have been that support to many of us. I am truly glad that our paths crossed. And years later, Ill be sitting on my porch smiling in memory of all my friendships, yours will cross my mind. ((HUGS))
Re: It's official: AngelBaby: Yeah, Iron Man....what Cherry said.
You know as well as I do that there were many times you helped me keep my head above water as well........it's all part of being an ojarian.
Many hugs, and lots of loves,
AB
Re: It's official: yella: Iron Man -
It's always sad when something like this ends, even if it's something that should end. I remember when I signed my settlement the day of my court date, I knew it was the best thing for my divorce to be final, and it took over 3 years. It was the end of a very long wait and my freedom from a very controlling person, but I still shed a tear. Actually, I literally cried.
I cried because I have a heart, even if people don't think I do. Endings make me sad, and new beginnings make me emotional. It's ok to feel that way. In fact, if you didn't, I'd be worried.
You've come a long way, and we've had much in common in the past year. There is still so much more living you're able to do now, and I know the right love out there for you is waiting. When you get it, you'll appreciate it that much more.
Don't be a stranger. ;)
Re: It's official: Lady Phoenix: You changed your name too Iron Man :o and here I had thought you just sailed off into the proverbial ojar sunset ;) I remember all the long talks we had when you first stumbled across this board..you have came along way baby as they say.
You are great man that will find something even better than you had with D..and you will remember how truly deserving you are.
I for one am glad to have known you...now if you could just slip that exquisite happiness you speak of into my stocking this year..it would be greatly appreciated. :P
Many Many Many blessings to you my friend,
Lady P..or just PG to you. :-*
