Re: The Top 5 Things I Never Have To Put Up With Again -- Now, it's your turn icwtsmnl: [quote author=divorciada06 link=topic=39063.msg426494#msg426494 date=1166714502">
4-Not having to eat dinner alone because after you saw what’s cooking you decided to eat at McDonalds. And I’m a good cook you fool!!!
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yeah.
Re: The Top 5 Things I Never Have To Put Up With Again -- Now, it's your turn ibelong2me: Top 5 Things I will NEVER Put Up With Again...
1. I will never put up with someone sitting their a$$ on the computer 24/7 playing EQ instead of being part of the family.
2. I will never put up with cooking nice meals and eating alone while he eats at the damn computer.
3. I will never have to be scared of someone throwing things or punching walls because they can't or don't know how to communicate.
4. I will never have to wonder where he is at, who he is with, what he is doing.
5. I will never put up with someone controlling every move I make..can't do this, I don't want you to do that. I wouldn't control anyone so therefore I will not allow another human being to control me.
So with that said Bye-bye Baby Have a Happy Life!!! I know that I will because I learned a lot about what I will not put up with and what I do deserve out of a relationship so for that I actually thank you :)
Ibelong2me
Re: The Top 5 Things I Never Have To Put Up With Again -- Now, it's your turn superwife: Hey, I like this thread!!!
In no particular order:
1-His lack of hygiene when it came to me (that should have been a hint when he suddenly needed to look and smell good :-\). Don't shower or groom for me, only do it when you're leaving the house.
2-Unexplained missing money in the account, with no consideration as to whether or not I had written out checks against that money.
3-His complete and utter disrespect for everyone, including his own family and mine.
4-His "I have nothing in common with these people, so I really don't want to socialize" when he really meant 'I am so above them" (this went for friends or family)
5- (and I stole this from freakshow)...bad sex!! Not only that, bad sex with no foreplay!! Still can't figure out why you couldn't please me, (see #1, there's another clue ;) )
Re: The Top 5 Things I Never Have To Put Up With Again -- Now, it's your turn craez: 1) no more ruined holidays. i'd rather be completely and totally alone than be with someone so hateful (4 thanksgivings? 3 i cried)
2) i never have to deal with his egotistical, arrogant, tactless personality ever again
3) don't have to cry on my way to work, in the car, in the shower, making breakfast, watching tv....because he did something to make me feel like crap
4) don't have to wonder who he's cheating on me with this time.
5) my feelings matter. i don't have to defend myself any more if i get upset about something.
i hate my ex. i think i always will. worthless. totally worthless. i wanna kick him in the nuts really hard.
Re: The Top 5 Things I Never Have To Put Up With Again -- Now, it's your turn Phoenix5822: I needed this thread...thanks for starting it!!!!
1) Never having to wonder why he would rather im friends or text message back and forth rather than spending time with me & coming so low on the priority list that I don't even register. I was prepared to come in behind our daughter, but not every one of his friends too. Not feeling like something was wrong with ME because of his choice.
2) Not having to deal with people feeling sorry for me because he treated us so poorly. Even his parents apologized for their son's behavior.
3) (unfortunately repeat) Never having to worry about you whether or not he is cheating on me...he is.
4) Never having to "put on the face" after he intentionally hurt me on the way to something that he felt like he had better things to do. (i.e. lamaze, christmas with my family, etc) This goes hand in hand with Superchick's #4.
5) Never having to wonder why he can't understand that money can only be spent one time, and if he wants his numerous expensive hobbies we will never be able to upgrade the house. I hated feeling like his personal accountant.
PS 2be...now I understand why my ex wanted a F350!! :D
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These go hand in hand. Oh, did he also have a really big SUV/Pickup? I'm finding that the size of a man's truck is inversly proportional to the size of his "manhood".
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