Re: To Set The Record Straight Spike: Now see A, I don't want this thread to go towards the cheating spouse, I want the readers to find the reasons they caused, for the other to consider cheating.
We need to fix what we can, we can't fix anyone but ourselves.
C-Note, you came in with the same thoughts, expand on them.
Re: To Set The Record Straight hudson: Great post Spike. I'm sure there are many here at ojar that will cherish the day they can look at their divorces the way you have come to view yours.
Cheers
To Set The Record Straight Spike: I know that I contributed to the demise of my marriage. I have taken responsibility for my part. I learned, directly from my ex, what I did wrong. I have never said I wasn't partially to blame.
She told me what my downfalls were in our relationship, but not until after the betrayal. I learned what I needed to do to become a better partner, but not until she had gone elsewhere without giving me a chance to fix it.
I guess she decided to drive the point home by betraying me. Tough love I guess you'd call it. So in order for me to improve my part of our partnership, she broke my heart, and my trust, and our vows. Well, it worked!!! I am a better person now, stronger, more patience, more open with my feelings, and emotions. So, to my ex, thank you. All the pain that you used to fix me, worked. Too bad you won't see it, you would be impressed. I know there are others that are.
Thank you for all the help.
Re: To Set The Record Straight thejoker: you forgot to add that you are twice as sexy now....
Re: To Set The Record Straight cdoulatiff: Spike....
that's an awesome post!!!!! :)
