going too far surprised: So my friend and I were trading emails last week and we were getting slightly flirtatious. The thing is, some people have suggested he may have feelings for me, but I don't feel anything but friendship for him. So now I'm afraid I let the emails go too far. I wasn't overtly sexual, but I like to flirt and I was just being me. So, I guess my point is, I'm afraid I may have led my friend on.
Re: going too far superwife: Just be honest. Even if you are honest, he may still feel led on, but you will feel better if you just let it out.
Re: going too far lonewolf: Agreed with the Superchick. Just be honest. but nake sure you forewarn him though that you're not trying to hurt him.
Re: going too far surprised: The thing is, I don't think he would ever say anything about having feelings for me, if he does. He's friends with the ex, and the ex knows there has always been speculation about his feelings. So I can't just come out with, so do you like me? My plan is just to shift the emails and become VERY platonic, with no hint of flirting.
