I got a new place today ... PrincessKapow: I'll be moving out of my house into an apartment in the next couple of weeks. It's actually a great place ... the bottom floor of a nice house ... but it's not my house, my home, the place I created with my husband. *sigh*
Who else has done this? How have you handled it? I feel like my heart's being ripped out.
Re: I got a new place today ... JadedButtafly: Been there, but my husband and i moved a lot bc of the military...but it didnt' hurt any the less than you are feeling. Moving back home and starting my place with my 3 children alone. it was tough but i did it, i am not saying im over it,, im not by far. but the pain does lessen in time. [glow=red,2,300"> [move"> (((HUGS))[/move">
Re: I got a new place today ... JNA: Princess wrote: "Who else has done this? How have you handled it? I feel like my heart's being ripped out."
It hurts for a couple of weeks then things calm down and you get use to it...
All "change" is this way ok
I had to move into an Appt for a time until things were settled through a divorce but then moved along to better things as everything we had was locked down through the divorce...
Remember the only way you have to go after a seperation is "up"
Stay Strong
JNA
Re: I got a new place today ... abandoned1: It's actually worse for me the other way around - being the one that stays in the place - in my case our apartment. I hate this place now - but I live in one of the most expensive cities in the U.S. and it's a very good deal - so I stay. It sucks though because we have many memories here, and although I've COMPLETELY redecorated - I can still feel our memories, and here her voice calling me. Honestly, I'd rather move and start fresh - and I still might, but I'd be paying substantially more. ***sigh*** :-\
Re: I got a new place today ... PrincessKapow: abandoned1, I'm so sorry about your situation. I had the choice to stay in the house, but what you're talking about (along with not wanting all of my money to have go into my house) is a reason I decided to move on.
Since I am not the one who is not "in love" with my spouse and I am not the one who stays out until all hours of the night and I am not the one who isn't sure about being married ... a little bitty evil part of me (a part I don't let out often) hopes like hell that my stbxh realizes how much I added to our home and his life.
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