Anyone feel the same? Mr. Joshua: I've been broken up with my ex going on year and a half. I started seeing someone I met 4 months ago. Wonderful girl, very sweet, kind heart, funny, VERY cute. I'm already in therapy and know the answers, just wanted someone else's opinion...one, I'm not in love. This new girl is great, lots in common and great to be around, but mentally, it doesn't click, I'm not stimulated. Now my ex....WAS sweet, kind and funny, but EXTREMELY intellingent, mentally stimulating, always keeping me on my toes, great conversationalist. I guess being a sociopath will do that to you.
Bottom line, I am in the same situation as a lot of you. I am with a great woman, sexually fantastic, I hadn't had that for some time with the ex. Very much almost a friend's with benefits thing. I don't feel emotionally drawn to her as I did to me ex who I now despise, but am constantly angry with, like a dull, dull ache from the hurt. I have this dull, dull ache in my heart becuase I thought she was the one. This new relationship is brand new and still has blossoming to do, I do realize that. I am more than ready to do that with new girl, becuase everything is so promising.
Just wanted to know, and I'm sure there are, anyone who's in a new relationship, but still mad and why?
Re: Anyone feel the same? stillfightin: hi,
no offense but could ya shorten your screenname a bit. It makes it difficult to read the message list.
thanks
lite.
Re: Anyone feel the same? td7629: Just curious.. Have you been diagnosed as a sociopath? If so, I am told that sociopaths can not ever truly love anyone.. I have some experience with this in dealing with my ex that is why I am asking.
Re: Anyone feel the same? JimB: So you are working in therapy to disperse your anger? I'd say if this new woman is willing to wait and help as you work on that, you might find love to be more accessible when the anger is gone. Hard to imagine love coexisting with such a powerful negative emotion....
Re: Anyone feel the same? JNA: Well I have to say you just "barely" fit that name in the block...LOL
As far as the rest...
It takes a time to really "click" as a couple and to look at her as opposed to your ex and her good qualities
Some people "fall" in love fast (Bad Thing)
Some people it takes a time to get into someone else...
Sounds like you
blacktop wrote: "I don't feel emotionally drawn to her as I did to me ex who I now despise, but am constantly angry with"
Join the club dude...
Some things you just "don't" do
And my ex crossed that line too...
In time this too shall pass ok
As far as the why from my side that I am angry with my ex...
I'll spare you that but lets just say well I dated a "stripper" one time that was more trustworthy than her
Give it some time with the new girl ok...
As far as the "Sociopath" to the other poster here...He was talking about her being one...
And "no" they can never love anyone as it is all about "Need" not "Love"
I know...
I dated one...Or one like that with a Mental Illness
But she was HOT...LMAO
JNA
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